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My husband asked the OW to go to her house?! She's married?


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OP, what exactly are you looking for here?

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You keep asking people to tell you it's ok to stay with him.

 

Because you have such low self esteem you think you'd die without him.

 

Nobody is going to tell you that. You can to go 100 MORE forums and you will STILL be told to leave him - except maybe the ones for cheaters, and even then people will tell you he will never love you.

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Their affair is getting worse. I haven't told him to leave and said I wanted to work on things. We've had one marriage counseling session.

 

But I found emails from yesterday, they talk about having a quickie at the restaurant he and I went to over the weekend - she was there with her husband?! He did spend kind of a long time in the men's room and I had no idea!

 

Are they both crazy? She told him again that she would let him know when she felt like seeing him, apparently this was her idea?! And he went along with it? What does it mean that he was bold enough to do this? Someone told me its because he already feels married to her instead of me? This is worse than having sex in our bed, I'd feel less violated. What does it mean that he accepted to do something that low because she asked?!

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Their affair is getting worse. I haven't told him to leave and said I wanted to work on things. But I found emails from yesterday, they talk about having a quickie at the restaurant
Can I be rude?

 

How pathetic of a wife do you want to be? You're doing a pretty good job of it.

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