Is these guy worth my time?

[Reyna1994]

So I met these guy at my friend **** birthday party. She introduced us after I asked her who he was, she told me that he is a co-worker of hers. I was interested at first until another friend of mine *** pointed out that he was the guy that slept with a friend of hers (she told me the story weeks before these day). I right away lost interest and viewed him as a guy who only fools around.

 

Threw out the night he continued on trying to talk to me until I had to leave, which he also walked me to my car with *****. He asked for my number but *** got in between and said that there's no point on getting it, I wouldn't answer him anyway (at the moment it was true). I gave him and ***** a hug and left with ***.

 

We ended up at my brother's apartment, I told him and his friend about the guy and his friend convinced me to talk to the guy so *** called ***** and told her to give him my number. Not long after he messages me and we have been messaging ever since. Two weeks after we started talking he started telling me that I am different and that he really liked me, I of course didn't believe him judging by what I know about him, but I still went along with it since I did enjoy talking to him. I met up with my friend *** again and she told me that ***** has been telling her how calm the guy is at work now and how all he talks about is me.

 

She said that he admitted that the other girl was just a one day thing but that he didn't see me like that. By these point I actually started liking him and decided to give it a try. He asked me to go out on a date with him, but before the date he said he wanted to see me again for a little bit. The next day I ended up at his job waiting for him to clock out. We stayed talking outside for about 3 hours. He would occasionally hug me or touch me in some way telling me how nervous I make him, by the time I said it was time for me to go he gave me a peck and walked me to my car. Moments later he messages me asking when we could go out on our date and told me he had Saturday, Sunday and Monday off, I chose Sunday.

 

While messaging him Saturday he told me he was at work which I found a bit strange since he told me he was off, he also kept telling me how he missed me. Sunday came and I was driving home from my cousins house which happened to be close to his job and as I passed it I noticed his car parked and figured that he also had to work that day. I was expecting him to tell me that he was called up or something but he ended up telling me how he had a headache and was in bed all day and how now he was helping his father on some plumbing problem at their house.

 

By the time he said he got home it was late so he apologized and said he would make it up the next day. Next day came and he continued saying how much he missed me. He again said he was at work so I ended up telling him that we could just go on our date next weekend and he agreed by telling me how he would make it worth it since he failed me this weekend and felt bad because he wants to see me happy and not disappointed. Should I go on that date with him or should I just stop talking to him since he might be playing me?

Edited December 4, 2012 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
removed peoples real names and put in paragraphs

[clia]

It's been what, three weeks since you met him? And you haven't had a date with him yet? You've been texting and you stopped by his work once?

 

You make a date for Sunday and he essentially stood you up? (It is not clear to me at all whether you two confirmed a time to get together, and how he ended up cancelling on you. It sounds like you just talked later that night and he made some excuse?)

 

He tells you he has the day off, yet you see his car at work?

 

He sounds like a flake to me, and not all that interested in you.

 

If I were you, I would just sit back and not initiate anything. Do not text him; you can respond if he texts you first. If he asks you out on a date, you can go if you want, but do not be the one to initiate anything, and do not go up to his work.