denxnis Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 My ex-girlfriend and I broke up a little over 1 month ago, we were together for ~6 years. I was not a good boyfriend and took what i had for granted; I wish I could go back and be a better man, unfortunately that is not an option. When the moment came my ex-girlfriend emotionally cheated on me. Red flags began to pop-up and I eventually ended things. I pleaded and begged her to try and work things out. I offered to go to church with her as well as give her space if need be. She instead began sleeping with her coworker. Today is where I draw the line. It was my birthday. She wished me a happy birthday and hoped all my wishes come true. As the night came to an end I could not help but drive by her home one last time; sure enough at 11pm her coworker's truck is parked there again. I am a christian guy. I am not ugly nor am I loser. I have a bright future ahead of me as graduation and a full-time job await me next summer. Rather than spending my time writing about how I feel and if I should contact her I have decided to remove her from my life completely. She cannot call or text me anymore more. Her and all of her friends are blocked on facebook. Her emails are automatically deleted before entering my inbox. I must accept the fact that the world is a cold place and bad people will always be present. Rather than sleep with multiple woman and prey my heart does not get broken I will take the high road and better myself physically and mentally. The next woman I sleep with will be my wife. I will cherish her and I will treat her with the respect and love that she deserves. Thank you very much for all of your support Love Shack - I know not all of you are religious but I prey that all of you who have been wronged learn a life lesson from your relationships and become better people from it. Good night and god bless. 2
Chi townD Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I must accept the fact that the world is a cold place and bad people will always be present. Rather than sleep with multiple woman and prey my heart does not get broken I will take the high road and better myself physically and mentally. Sorry, but the world will be a cold place if you look at it as such. I have a feeling that you have made your Ex your world and that's where things are at it's coldest right now. Our lives are our own. No one else's. We chose who to SHARE our lives with. The world can be a wonderful place full of adventures to explore and at your fingertips. It's full of sites that are beautiful and full of different people from different cultures and you can meet some amazing people and all you have to do is make a plan and walk out your door. The world isn't going to come to you, you have to go to it. Just have one adventure, something amazing and I promise you, you're gonna meet some really interesting people along the way. Don't lose hope, dude.
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