braveheart1 Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 So, I've been dating my girlfriend for two years. In the beginning I noticed that her blackberry would always go off. She'd get text messages and the ringtone set up for facebook would go off alot. But I noticed that there were no comments being posted on facebook. So I got nosey and after a few months I noticed that she had several guys sending her messages on facebook and inviting her out for drinks and to meet up. But she'd always respond that drinks or meeting up sounded great but I never saw that she mentioned she was dating someone. I've had a co-worker that i've been cool with for the last 11 years who she's known and been friends with since they were in middle school. So since we began dating he's been messaging her and I also noticed that one of his friends was one of the guys sending facebook messages and asking to meet up for drinks or with them two and her and her friend. So I've had some jealousy and insecurity issues... Since then I let what happened in the first five months of guys inviting her to go out and her always saying that it always sounded great. Now, since then, this guy friend of hers who's also my co-worker and i've been cool with has texted her from time to time. She would never mention that they've talked unless I looked at her phone ( which I know was wrong ) or asked when have they talked. So, I've felt uncomfortable with him because I know the type of guy he is and it's been two years and all he seems to do is text her yet we've always been cool. I would of expected that this guy would of reached out to me at some point and made an attempt for us to hang out with him and his girl but he's never done that and she's never suggested that he contact me or reach out to me since we were also cool so that we could make plans instead of him always just texting her so that I'd feel comfortable with their interaction. And the other day, while I was at work, she tells me that he invited us out for drinks with him and his girl. I was going to leave early but I still feel uncomfortable since he's always just getting in contact with only her. So I stayed at work and she said she would meet up with them. So after an hour after I know she got to the bar, I texted her and asked how it was going. She say we're here, some of my co-workers are here and we're chillin... I text her later on like at 10:30 and no reply, at 10:40 and no reply, 10:50 and no reply. When I get out at 11pm I call and she answers and says hey, come by... So i ask who was there cause it's a local bar and she says well my co-workers had already left to go to the movies but i'm here with him ( his name ). So I ask where's his girl, and she says she fell asleep. I said at the bar, she said no she never came. He reached out to her but she never made it and called back saying she fell asleep. So for four hours, she was at the bar with him, and part of that time with her co-workers... My problem is that she should of told me earlier that his girlfriend never showed. And that all that time, her co-workers were their with them meanwhile she's dating me so what are they going to think about the two of them being their together and how does that look for me. And she knew I had an issue with him always just reaching out to her... So I get there and i'm so pissed and coudn't control having such a nasty face. He sits there still talking to her about some stuff, I buy us a round of drinks, and i'm still mad. So he decides to get up and go somewhere else... That all caused a huge arguement... What do you think I should do or she should have done about that night and their interaction as a whole????
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