moloko99 Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Ok, so this might be funny or not. But when it comes to girls, my friends keep me out of the "scene" most of the time. What I mean is that, for some reason, when they have plans to go out or even mingle with girls they don´t even let me know, it doesn´t even remotely cross their minds. We hang out, we watch the game together, we kid around or go play basketball but when it comes to actual "grown up stuff" (and i´m talking about my unmarried friends in their early and mid 30´s) they don´t even give me a holler. And it´s hard to confront people for this sort of thing, we have been friends since high school, but it´s also hard not to feel left out and kind of feeling like the "unattractive" or "uncool" member of the group. Even if it is the case I always thought it was kind of mean. I tried going to a party with them (One of them really didn´t have a choice but to invite me) along with some people from the office, but even then they bailed out on me as soon as they hooked up (and believe me, they all do at some point). I am not trying to block either, if you hook up hey it´s all good I will be out of your way in a second. But not even a "hey man, I´d like you to meet some one" or "have you met so and so"...nothing.Sorry I´m being a bummer, any comments?
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