aboehme Posted August 10, 2004 Posted August 10, 2004 how can i break up with my boyfriend that ive been with for 5 years im just not happy anymore. it becomes irritating when i get bitched at for leaving for a few hours even if im with my famly. i stopped bringing around my girlfriend because in the first 3 years i was with him he cheated on me with two of my friends. im 20 years old with a desk job so nothing much excited happens there and when i get home id like to be able to go out but though he says he neer tells me no him bitching at me and giving me a guilt treatment is basically the same thing. if i wouldnt feel guilty leaving him i would but he has nothing everything that is at our place is mine other than speakers and the sterio. he gets paid under the tanle so thats not a very sturdy job and hes litterally been unemployed for almost 2 years leaving me to pay for everything. he owes me a lot of money but if i could just get away... i dont even care about the money i just want to be on my own i really wanted to marry him have children and ive been looking into buying a house but ive realized hes not right for me and my whole out look about myself has gone down. i just want to be happy again and not have to worry if i come home an hour or so after i said id be back what problem im going to have to put up with.. please someone help me!!!!
Pocky Posted August 10, 2004 Posted August 10, 2004 You're not responsible for you boyfriend. If you do not want to be in a relationship with him then you should move out and end the relationship. He is an adult and should be capable of taking care of himself. You need to do what is right for yourself and not sacrifice your happiness for him. Tell him that you're not happy and you want to move out on your own. Be prepared for all his questions before you tell him this. Get your financial information in order and figure out how you will separate the joint things in the house.
Author aboehme Posted August 10, 2004 Author Posted August 10, 2004 thanks i dont have anything joint with him its all in my name and ive paid for all of my stuff. but thank you ill try and get the courage to tell him i love you but i cant be with you
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