one goal Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 That hot chick in my class, she never approved my friend request. Is it okay if I email her at her school email address? How would she react to that you think? This chick is really hot. Another girl in class told me she thinks she's a brat because she is kinda stuck up.
mammasita Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 So why do you want to email her? Just because she's hot? I wouldn't email her without some sort of conversation/introduction. It may come across a bit stalkerish especially since she denied your Facebook request. 1
ja123 Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Did you ever talk to her in person? That's the best approach, it shows you're confident. She might have no idea who you are, or you are probably very far off her radar.
Author one goal Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 Did you ever talk to her in person? That's the best approach, it shows you're confident. She might have no idea who you are, or you are probably very far off her radar. Of course Ive talked to her in class. Not a lot though. I'm really nervous to talk a lot especially to her because she's really good looking. I emailed her and she replied back and replied again when I replied. She doesn't have a lot of notes It appears though she shares the same political views as me also because I mentioned the liberals in our class and she agrees with me.
Nightsky Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Just ask her out in person, email is lame unless you write something fantastical.
Author one goal Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 Just ask her out in person, email is lame unless you write something fantastical. I barely even know her other than a few words in class. I have no way of really asking her out. We dont know each other much at all. She would think it's creepy.
Nightsky Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I barely even know her other than a few words in class. I have no way of really asking her out. We dont know each other much at all. She would think it's creepy. haha if you're worried about being creepy than you've already lost. Let me just say that yes it's ok to email. Far more cool and likely to get you a date if you just ask her out in person. You can always ask her out again is she says no the first time.
Author one goal Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 haha if you're worried about being creepy than you've already lost. Let me just say that yes it's ok to email. Far more cool and likely to get you a date if you just ask her out in person. You can always ask her out again is she says no the first time. Yea. She replied back again. I commented how the bandana she was wearing made her look like a hippy even though she's not liberal she just told me. Anyways I replied back telling her it looked cute. Didn't ask her out, didn't hit on her, but the telling her it looked cute comment does that at least give her a subtle hint that Im kinda interested in her?
Nightsky Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Yea. She replied back again. I commented how the bandana she was wearing made her look like a hippy even though she's not liberal she just told me. Anyways I replied back telling her it looked cute. Didn't ask her out, didn't hit on her, but the telling her it looked cute comment does that at least give her a subtle hint that Im kinda interested in her? You sound like you're being lame and o scared to me. I would have just asked her out in person... but what you are doing is better than nothing. The bolder the better.
Author one goal Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 You sound like you're being lame and o scared to me. I would have just asked her out in person... but what you are doing is better than nothing. The bolder the better. Oh. Does saying it looked cute give at least some hint though?
Author one goal Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 She just replied back saying "aww than u lol"!! What should I say back ASAP???? Should I tell her and be honest that I'm too shy to talk to her in class?
iiiii Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Oh. Does saying it looked cute give at least some hint though? Yup it does, but a hint isn't going to get you a date. Girls like guys to man up and actually ask them out.
TheFinalWord Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Yea. She replied back again. I commented how the bandana she was wearing made her look like a hippy even though she's not liberal she just told me. Anyways I replied back telling her it looked cute. Didn't ask her out, didn't hit on her, but the telling her it looked cute comment does that at least give her a subtle hint that Im kinda interested in her? Hey bro, The fact you said she is extremely attractive and a random guy is e-mailing her indicates that (if she has any common sense). Now you have her attention, don't beat around the bush. Ask her out in class. Saying she's cute just feeds the ego; hot women know they're hot. You want to know if she thinks you're attractive. Both you and her already knows she's cute. The only way to know if she thinks you're cute is to ask her out on a date, go on the date, and then secure a second date. If all three steps don't happen, you will just type away, analyze all the messages for what you did wrong. Good luck!!!
TheFinalWord Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 She just replied back saying "aww than u lol"!! What should I say back ASAP???? Should I tell her and be honest that I'm too shy to talk to her in class? Friendzoning in 10...9...8...7 "I don't know how I'd look in it, why don't I come over and try it on and you tell me!" Just playin...what I would do is tell her you have to go...leave on a high note. Then in class, ask her out...Good luck!
Author one goal Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 I did. I did tell her it was past my bed time. I also did tell her sorry I dont talk to you more, and told her that for some reason I feel really shy when I try to talk to her. Will she get the hint I feel shy talking to her because I'm attracted to her? I was dressed nice for a couple classes too because I had a presentation in another class. Like I was wearing a suit and commented about it.
Nightsky Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I did. I did tell her it was past my bed time. I also did tell her sorry I dont talk to you more, and told her that for some reason I feel really shy when I try to talk to her. Will she get the hint I feel shy talking to her because I'm attracted to her? I was dressed nice for a couple classes too because I had a presentation in another class. Like I was wearing a suit and commented about it. If you're looking for her to make a move understand that's very unlikely. You man up and stop giving hints and make some bold moves. Than take pictures of her naked, the memories will last a life time that way.
Eternal Sunshine Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I did. I did tell her it was past my bed time. I also did tell her sorry I dont talk to you more, and told her that for some reason I feel really shy when I try to talk to her. Will she get the hint I feel shy talking to her because I'm attracted to her? I was dressed nice for a couple classes too because I had a presentation in another class. Like I was wearing a suit and commented about it. Shouldn't have said that. It makes you sound lame and insecure.
naviis Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 If you're looking for her to make a move understand that's very unlikely. You man up and stop giving hints and make some bold moves. Agreed. You sound like you're waiting for her to take a hint and make a move -- she won't. You started this thing, now finish it! Than take pictures of her naked, the memories will last a life time that way. Also agreed.
Author one goal Posted December 4, 2012 Author Posted December 4, 2012 She didn't say anything about the email today. We filled out our teacher evaluations today and said how I and the others dont like the art class. of course she is really the only one who likes the class and she said she loves it. Said maybe we shouldn't have picked this class then. Anyways I just emailed her asking her if she wants to to to an art exhibit with me for the extra credit assignment. 1
Author one goal Posted December 5, 2012 Author Posted December 5, 2012 And I also told her how I think she seems really mature compared to the other girls at school. This is what I said. Does this make it obvious to her Im interested in her? I could tell that in class! Honestly that's probably why I always felt kind of intimidated/shy to talk to you more often at school compared to any of the other girls at school
Author one goal Posted December 7, 2012 Author Posted December 7, 2012 I emailed her about something else, but she didn't reply lol. Is it okay last day of the semester I mentioned to her if she wants to hangout sometime and meetup at school?
Nightsky Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 You should have asked her out in class. You can keep emailing her but it sounds like she is ignoring you. Don't tell girls they are really mature sounds weird. 1
Author one goal Posted December 11, 2012 Author Posted December 11, 2012 You should have asked her out in class. You can keep emailing her but it sounds like she is ignoring you. Don't tell girls they are really mature sounds weird. You mean you think she's ignoring me because she's not interested, or because she wants me to talk to her in person?
Nightsky Posted December 11, 2012 Posted December 11, 2012 You mean you think she's ignoring me because she's not interested, or because she wants me to talk to her in person? I have no idea if or why she is ignoring you. All I know is you shouldn't have been all "she didn't talk to me about the emails in class." You should have just asked her out. I mean whats she going to do "hey it was really nice to get those emails" and than you would have had the balls to ask her out? Or was she going to be all "Emails, date me!?" Dude just ask them out in person sooner than later. If emails is all you have than ask her out there and use your common sense. It's not rocket science. Cave people figure all this crap out.
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