Nymos Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I Spend my last 6 years married, but then she kick me for someone else (this is the basic resume) It's being over 6 month and now I'm trying to get on track again. I don't wanna find someone right now, but I want to be open for this, be in the right place at the right time, so my princess will be in that castle =) I was wondering if I should get back to some MMO (I found my ex while playing Ragnarok, then we moved to WoW and others games) or what. I'm from Brazil, but I'm planning on move out. Not sure where yet. (I work with IT so job is not so much of a problem). Thinking in move to USA, Canada, UK or France. I'm 27, so I guess (after reading a lot of posts here on the LoveShack) I'm not old for those kind of changes. =) Those places (specially US) have a life-style that is more like me. Also, the electronics and others goods are cheap (sometimes, 5x times cheaper) My ex-wife was a gamer-girl, and we get along pretty well. Our discussions/problems were about me being too much romantic (real-life). I like to go out and have a nice dinner alone with her talk about something just to spend time with her, looking at her. Or she being too much casual (in-game). I'm usually play for the win (spend hours/days studying bosses and practicing if needed (hardcore)). not just to spend time playing (4fun). So, what should I do to be in the right place. MMO's are a good one, also in my field. but... I think I'm missing some piece here, this is why I'm asking =X PS: I have some good points as a partner.
zebracolors Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 (edited) I think its more accurate to say MMO gaming is more available in the US, UK and Canada:) But to the point, I really recommend you don't seek yet another woman off some online game. Its good that you want to take it slow and careful. However, take a good look at the circumstances around why your ex left you in the first place. My point? You thought you knew that woman well enough and you even married her. But she ended up ditching you for someone else. You really can't get to know someone through that medium. True, you may get "lucky". But lets keep it real. You'll just exhaust yourself trying to find someone online who happens to be attractive to you personally, and who is compatible. Besides, don't you have any career goals? I realize you work in IT, which is good. But really if you wanted to move to USA, UK or Canada, you'll need a better reason to than easy-to-get electronics;) To get a J-1 work visa and sponsorship you've got to be really good at what you do, as you're competing with other qualified foreigners, and candidates who are citizens already. But you can't really expand your skills if you're spending half your time playing online games. So moving to another country to work is good, but I would also recommend you focus on that as a goal, before you worry about relationships again. Just my advice, take it or leave it. Edited December 4, 2012 by zebracolors
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