blue_jay_bird Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 The guy i'm dating is 26 and has never had a relationship last longer then a year. Is this a red flag?
pteromom Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 A red flag? Yes. A dealbreaker? No. But definitely something worth exploring to find out why he's never had a long-term relationship, and if he thinks he is capable of it.
CarrieT Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Blue Jay - what has been the reason he gave you why the relationships haven't lasted? I don't think it is a deal breaker or even possibly a red flag. It might mean that he is now maturing to be a person that CAN have longer relationships and that before this, he wasn't emotionally ready to commit. Some people come to it later in life and that isn't a bad thing at all.
truth_seeker Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 The guy i'm dating is 26 and has never had a relationship last longer then a year. Is this a red flag? No, especially with the world we live in today. Divorce rate is 50%. People are multi-dating more than ever with the advent of social media and OLD. Too many options give people more of an incentive just to date casually.
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