Author ThatJustHappened Posted December 29, 2012 Author Posted December 29, 2012 It actually does make somewhat of a difference, yeah. Like he wasn't being as callous as you'd thought! Oh no I know that part, and luckily I didn't respond to it or even address it with him, so I don't feel so bad (a tad embarrassed about my rant on here, but oh well). But I mean does it make a difference as to what I should do?
coffeebean201 Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I find men to be terrible communicators, with their words. And they often say the wrong thing. What was his body language towards you? Anyways, if his attention is pre-occupied with something else, you deserve far better.
crashvector Posted December 29, 2012 Posted December 29, 2012 I find men to be terrible communicators, with their words. And they often say the wrong thing. What was his body language towards you? Anyways, if his attention is pre-occupied with something else, you deserve far better. I dunno..some of us men can be quite articulate
Author ThatJustHappened Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 Update- I joined Match.com and on my 2nd day, my ex's profile came up on my match page. I cried for half an hour, and now I don't care. Progress!!!
TaraMaiden Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Block it. It's just worth knowing that even if someone comes up on your profile as a 'match', it neither means that they are, nor does it mean they're good enough anyway.....
Author ThatJustHappened Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 Block it. It's just worth knowing that even if someone comes up on your profile as a 'match', it neither means that they are, nor does it mean they're good enough anyway..... Waaaaaay ahead of you Tara. I already blocked it, and I am in a fabulous mood today!! I genuinely do not care anymore! He's a pathological liar who may or may not have erectile dysfunction and he snores like a trucker. Enjoy ladies! :laugh:
Author ThatJustHappened Posted January 20, 2013 Author Posted January 20, 2013 I had a date with a guy I actually like last night..and my ex texts me an hour before I leave. He was asking my opinion on a shirt he was thinking about buying. I didn't answer (I tried to block his number but apparently you can only block texting, you can't block iMessages, and we both have iPhones). Do exes have a 6th sense for when you're getting over them and they jump in and start messing with your head??? He also did something very nice for me last week (I didn't ask him to, but he gave me a glowing recommendation for a job that he knew I would really want, and they ended up calling me in for an interview next week). The job is not at his company and would have nothing to do with him so I'm taking the interview..he owes me that much! What is it with ex boyfriends and their uncanny ability to tell when you're starting to get happy again??? The date went really well by the way..we're going out again today. I'm not getting my hopes up yet..but this one could be a keeper... 1
TaraMaiden Posted January 20, 2013 Posted January 20, 2013 I can block calls, but not texts. but those I don't want to keep, are surprisingly;y easy to delete. I hang my thumb on the text message, and a box of options comes up, one of which is 'delete?' I select that and... whaddya know! gone!!
SharkTooth Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 What is it with ex boyfriends and their uncanny ability to tell when you're starting to get happy again??? The date went really well by the way..we're going out again today. I'm not getting my hopes up yet..but this one could be a keeper... Well of course we do! But no, really it's pretty simple. I mean think about it. The guy experienced meeting you, dating you, sweeping you off your feet, falling in love with him, and every happy moment in between. He knows the "aura" you put out when you are happy. The same applies for women and your 6th sense sniffing out our pathetic attempt to seems ok with the break up... Very cool to hear about the date! See, I don't even know you and can tell you're happy! lol
stevie_23 Posted January 21, 2013 Posted January 21, 2013 This person seems unrealistic in terms of what they want from a relationship and from another human being. To tell you that it was ALL your fault (a relationship breakdown is NEVER just one person's fault and sometimes it's NOBODY'S fault) is unrealistic and inaccurate. To say you are not "worth it" is very hurtful and as someone said earlier, people do say things in the heat of the moment when THEY are hurting too, however in this case, I also think he meant it more along the lines of the RELATIONSHIP was not worth it anymore. Not YOU as a person. Though he does sound very selfish and weird, so who knows what he meant.
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