racer120 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Ok, I suck at this. When dating women, I never know when to make my move. Like sometimes, when dating, I feel it is way too early to do it on the first date. And then I don't but can feel sad about it afterwards. It happened now two times this year. When I had a really fun time with a girl but that I felt the kiss part would ruin the perfectly nice time we had together. One girl took it well and we moved further on the next date, but the other one just moved out of my life, and I wonder if it is because I didn't kiss her. I understand, while the girl will probably not take the initiative, there will be distinct signs pointing towards the right moment. Unfortunately I didn't seem to see those...
pteromom Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 You have to make the right moment happen, not just wait for it. Build up to it. Hold hands. Put an arm around her. Talk to her with your arm around her, laughing. If she's snuggling into you and looking in your eyes, she is most likely open to a kiss. So just do it.
Ami1uwant Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 If you guys hold hands while walking its safe to try for the kiss.
movingon12 Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I agree with the holding hands thing - it's a very good indicator of how comfortable she feels with you. If a first date was going well, personally I would consider it quite weird if the guy didn't try to kiss me - even if he didn't try it until he'd walked me home and we were saying goodbye.
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