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Drseussgrrl Established Member

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They look good together but I don't find him all that good-looking.

naviis Established Member

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They look good together but I don't find him all that good-looking.

 

Agreed and agreed.

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charlietheginger Established Member

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They look like a good match...

Shes really pretty and he is tall dark

And handsome...

I bet when he smiles he looks better

He is trying to look to serious

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Thanks for the reply....thing is..."this girl" ;) has been after this guy for so many years. "She" always got the impression that she was not good enough for him. She has finally started dating him but he acts like he is doing "her" a favour! :(

Eternal Sunshine Established Member

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Agreed and agreed.

 

Me too. He is not that good looking.

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ImperfectionisBeauty Established Member

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I think she is really pretty, him.. not as much. If someone acts like you should be lucky that they are with you then get out.. That is just rude and you can do better.

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mesmerized Established Member

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I don't find him good Looking, hes just tall. Doesn't sound like his personality is a gem either. Dump him, if he really thinks he is all that he is gonna dump you sooner or later anyway.

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Thanks for the reply....thing is..."this girl" ;) has been after this guy for so many years. "She" always got the impression that she was not good enough for him. She has finally started dating him but he acts like he is doing "her" a favour! :(

 

Why do you have "this girl," "she" and "her" in quotations? Is it really a guy?

 

Haha, just kidding - she's you, right?

 

Looks like a well matched couple. But if he has a superior attitude, maybe he's not such a great catch. That sounds like no fun at all.

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Awww shucks, jip Mme Chaucer, got me fair and square! ;)

 

Thank you all for the replies. I'm a first time poster, long time viewer.

 

There are so many stories behind this picture. But the honest truth is, my self esteem has been damaged by this particular guy (more stories to share in other threads I guess!).

 

Since we (this guy in the picture with me) have a lot of mutual friends and my friends seem to always say nice things to me, I was not really sure who to ask to break reality to me.

 

Yes, he does act like he is doing me a favour. Yes, he does probably think he can do better (watched him over the years try to hook up with other girls besides me:( ) and well, he probably realised how loyal I have been over the past 4 years to 'our friendship'.

 

Truth be told, he attitude is getting sort of bad toward me again. I have always treated him with love and tons of respect but my gut instinct makes me think I am not pretty enough for him and hence he treats me in a particular way.

 

Yeah, I should probably start thinking how to act gracefully on how to not tolerate his bad attitude toward me and stand my ground.....even if it means losing him :(

Star Gazer Established Member

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You are more attractive than that sloppily dressed tool who makes you feel bad.

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Eternal Sunshine Established Member

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To be honest, just from this picture; he looks like he would be an a-hole in person.

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AMusing Established Member

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Agree with previous posters.

 

You are super cute in the photo. Him? Meh. And that's coming from someone who normally judges women more harshly than men, looks-wise. You definitely could do better.

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wheream_i Established Member

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In what way would that guy be good looking? Because he's tall?

Drseussgrrl Established Member

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Omg what!

 

You are WAY cuter than him. He looks like a big-headed neanderthal.

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Awww shucks, jip Mme Chaucer, got me fair and square! ;)

 

Thank you all for the replies. I'm a first time poster, long time viewer.

 

There are so many stories behind this picture. But the honest truth is, my self esteem has been damaged by this particular guy (more stories to share in other threads I guess!).

 

Since we (this guy in the picture with me) have a lot of mutual friends and my friends seem to always say nice things to me, I was not really sure who to ask to break reality to me.

 

Yes, he does act like he is doing me a favour. Yes, he does probably think he can do better (watched him over the years try to hook up with other girls besides me:( ) and well, he probably realised how loyal I have been over the past 4 years to 'our friendship'.

 

Truth be told, he attitude is getting sort of bad toward me again. I have always treated him with love and tons of respect but my gut instinct makes me think I am not pretty enough for him and hence he treats me in a particular way.

 

Yeah, I should probably start thinking how to act gracefully on how to not tolerate his bad attitude toward me and stand my ground.....even if it means losing him :(

Your absolutely a beautiful women...

you can do better....

 

you will find another guy..

When you do that guy will be so

Happy to be with you he will have a

Smile on his face in pictures..

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JamesM Established Member

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Before I knew who you were...and honestly I thought you may have been the guy as we get alot of guys posting about their looks...

 

My first thought was "That guy is one lucky dude."

 

And now that I know you are asking, I think the same but add: Now why are you staying with him if HE thinks he is doing YOU a favor?

 

I am guessing that you have been friends for so long and you see many qualities that you like. He takes you for granted and figures you will stick by him.

 

Make yourself desirable by being harder to get. THAT should change his mind a little. :D

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yessy21 Established Member

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Fist off... This man looks cockeyed. No offense. he screams Frankenstein. he is extremely unnatractive. He is also balding. And that thing with his jaw is wellll.... not attractive. you are fairly exotic looking. you have a pretty face. you also seem more into him. he seems ackwards towards you. hence how he doesnt put his hand completley on you. he folds it upward, minimizing the affection.

 

He likes domineering women. the look in his eye says it all. He likes them strong and admirable. with nice hips. you need to be stern and dominant with him.

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I have like seriously the biggest goofiest smile on my face right now - no, I'm not conceited, but it has been a while (or maybe years) since I have heard someone telling me that I'm pretty. Guess when you are with someone, you avoid hearing it from other people and wait patiently for your significant other to say those comforting words. Worst part is, I never expected this guy to say that I am pretty. I was confident with myself knowing that I take good care of myself and well, was in a good place in my life until I started dating him. Then the self esteem issues started.

 

Yes, wheream_i, I like his height and build. On a more personal level, I like how he talks and engages in conversation with me. We do have similar interests (PC / TV games, history (ww1 and ww2), books, food etc so on that level, I do sort of get along with him.

 

But yes, I'm a girly girl. I would love to have a bf to make me feel pretty or good about myself instead of competing with his past (he keeps telling me how he treated his ex gfs better etc but will not do the same for me. Only because apparently now he is 'too hurt from the past' and cannot be like that toward me :(

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(he keeps telling me how he treated his ex gfs better etc but will not do the same for me. Only because apparently now he is 'too hurt from the past' and cannot be like that toward me :(

 

That is reason enough to break up with him, regardless about how attractive he is or isn't.

 

And yes, you are very, very pretty!

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Drseussgrrl Established Member

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Oh god honey forget Lurch here and go find yourself a real man. What a douche.

GirlontheLam Established Member

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Are you happy together is the much more essential question, and it sounds like that answer is no.

FitChick Established Member

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He reminds me of Lurch from The Addams Family.

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A BIG THANK YOU to all of you who replied - it has been a very gloomy Monday (and past few weeks!) for me and the replies are much needed after all this lame ass drama in my life.

 

I'm definitely keeping all your words and advice close to heart and will keep you guys updated about what happens over the next few days / weeks.

 

Its now bedtime on my side of the world (South Africa), so a good night to everyone and sleep well when you do finally get to bed :)

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I think she is beautiful.

 

I think he is just average.

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