Drseussgrrl Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 How do you ladies feel about getting "winks" from men online? And if you like the dude's profile, how do you respond?
rocketman122 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 sorry but winks are tacky and lack any creativity. I never send a wink. I hesitate when a woman send me a flirt/wink card. theyre just too simple. its for lazy people who dont want to put any effort in.
tman666 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Who winks at people, online or otherwise? Sorry, I know you were addressing the ladies here, but really?
naviis Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 I get "flirts" on the website I'm on -- never replied to them.
DC4 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Not a fan. Geez, even put in the effort to at least say "hello" 1
naviis Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Who winks at people, online or otherwise? Sorry, I know you were addressing the ladies here, but really? You'd be surprised
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 I never responded to them. I felt like if the guy was not moved - or courageous enough to just send me a message, there wasn't much point in it. On the other hand, I did flirt, or wink, or whatever when I saw my husband's profile. My intention was to let him know that further contact would be welcomed. So I guess I have a double standard about that.
dasein Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Never sent one. Responded to one, and that turned out to be the single obvious profile liar out of all the women I dated OLD. So didn't respond to any more, and wouldn't.
naviis Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 I was thinking actually I don't even look at their profile -- I just completely ignore it.
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 I ignored them if the guy wasn't hot.
Treasa Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Ha, a guy has to put more effort into it than that. One time I had a suspicion that my ex had a profile on Match, so I looked, and sure enough it was there. He specifically said in his profile that he hates being winked at, so I winked at him. LOL Childish maybe, but it made me smile.
SmileFace Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Online dating is ****ty enough for guys already. So if I get a wink and I find myself interested in a guys profile I will resend the wink and he could decide to write me. I think people use it as a way to see the person is a bit interested.
SJC2008 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Online dating is ****ty enough for guys already. So if I get a wink and I find myself interested in a guys profile I will resend the wink and he could decide to write me. I think people use it as a way to see the person is a bit interested. Great point. Guy sends a wink, girl sends wink back, guy messages girl and gets ball rolling. I find it hard to beleive that these anti-winkers wouldn't wink back to a man they were attracted to and had a lot in common in their profiles. I didn't wink, it never worked, neither did messages with "effort".
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