bobsmith76 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Men, I was wondering if you share the problems I have with paranoid women. I'm talking about women that are excessively afraid that a guy will harm them. In general I have found them very hard to deal with. They are almost paralyzed and are not fun to be around. They also seem to have a very tenuous grip in reality and routinely misinterpret my intentions. I was wondering if any guys here have encountered something similar.
Negative Nancy Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 If they are paranoid with you, it's probably for a reason. 1
Under The Radar Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 I only have a problem if they're holding a chloroform rag in one hand and a large kitchen knife in the other . Jesus Bob, what kind of women are you dating? 1
iiiii Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Maybe you are (unintentionally) somehow giving them creepy vibes? A woman who puts all guys into the dangerous/scary category is screwed up. But if you are giving out a creepy vibe, then women would be silly to ignore it.
Author bobsmith76 Posted December 3, 2012 Author Posted December 3, 2012 If they are paranoid with you, it's probably for a reason. Paranoia by definition is something that is irrational. If they have a reason then it's no longer paranoia but caution.
movingon12 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 To be fair, based on what you wrote on your other thread, you consider a woman to be "paranoid" if she wants the first date with a man she met online to be in a well lit, public place. I don't think there are many people (men or women) who would agree with you on this.
iiiii Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 To be fair, based on what you wrote on your other thread, you consider a woman to be "paranoid" if she wants the first date with a man she met online to be in a well lit, public place. I don't think there are many people (men or women) who would agree with you on this. No, that's just common self preservation, not paranoia! I'd be really upset if any of my friends was dumb enough to go on a first date with a stranger and NOT meet them in a a public, safe place. Date rape does happen...
Under The Radar Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Ok, so now that we have differentiated between paranoia, and caution, I feel "safe enough" to go to bed. Oh, and remember folks, first coffee meetups in prisons and dark alleys ARE BAD .
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