Michal2012 Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 I think you also love him. Some how you will not accept his love. My suggestion to accept his love. He make your life full of love.
crude Posted December 4, 2012 Posted December 4, 2012 He's the one who should've started this thread, not you. He's protecting you, maybe with his life, paying for you like you're an infant, obeying and deferring to you, but what is HE getting out of this one sided relationship. You have nothing to give him, you can only take. The decent thing is to tell him that and let him find a woman who can give, not just take.
Author Serv Posted December 5, 2012 Author Posted December 5, 2012 Question: How many LTR have you had before him? How long did they last? I have never been in a relationship before and that is why I am so inexperienced!
Under The Radar Posted December 5, 2012 Posted December 5, 2012 I have never been in a relationship before and that is why I am so inexperienced! A few things come to mind: If this is your first serious relationship, then judging from what you have written, you could do A LOT worse than this guy.Most people do not end up staying with their first significant other. People's late teens and early 20's are a time of rapid growth, change, and emotional development.Check out some of the threads in the breakup forum on GIGS (Grass is Greener on the Other Side Syndrome). A lot of couples in your demographic "don't make it" based on this very real concept. Part of me feels that you might be heading down that road, but I'm not sure. You guys haven't been physically intimate yet AND it has only been 2 months.I still stand by my previous post even given the above points. Remember, no one can say a bad thing about you, or your decision, as long as you are honest and kind.
Author Serv Posted December 5, 2012 Author Posted December 5, 2012 A few things come to mind: If this is your first serious relationship, then judging from what you have written, you could do A LOT worse than this guy.Most people do not end up staying with their first significant other. People's late teens and early 20's are a time of rapid growth, change, and emotional development.Check out some of the threads in the breakup forum on GIGS (Grass is Greener on the Other Side Syndrome). A lot of couples in your demographic "don't make it" based on this very real concept. Part of me feels that you might be heading down that road, but I'm not sure. You guys haven't been physically intimate yet AND it has only been 2 months.I still stand by my previous post even given the above points. Remember, no one can say a bad thing about you, or your decision, as long as you are honest and kind. The thing is, he might be aiming for marriage. He is around 22~ and had been in 3 relationships before. Last time we were at Toys R Us looking for something for my niece and when we were walking past the Barbie aisles, I commented on how the toys are so expensive these days and he joked and said I am a lucky women because he is going to make good money...I don't know if he was joking or really means it.
Under The Radar Posted December 6, 2012 Posted December 6, 2012 The thing is, he might be aiming for marriage. He is around 22~ and had been in 3 relationships before. Last time we were at Toys R Us looking for something for my niece and when we were walking past the Barbie aisles, I commented on how the toys are so expensive these days and he joked and said I am a lucky women because he is going to make good money...I don't know if he was joking or really means it. I don't think he was joking by saying that, but I also don't think the implication was definitely marriage. What is absolutely clear to me is that he really cares about you and wants to make you happy. My sole contention in this thread was not to lead him on if your feelings for him are not reciprocal. If BOTH of you intend to progress the relationship then by all means do not breakup with him. However, you should end things if you don't ever see yourself falling in love with him.
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