NateC Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 So I met this girl I'd say two months ago via OLD ...thought I'd give it a try. We really got along well and had a lot of shared interests and ended up texting/whatever for 2-3 hours a day - sometimes more. After meeting her a few times I really thought things were going well...and then randomly as we were texting back and forth one night she tells me "I really only think of you as a friend." ...ouch. A couple weeks before I actually told her I was interested in her and that I did like her - her response was "we'll see how it goes". Well, I know the answer to that one. That's out of the way, but ever since then she's basically stopped all contact whatsoever. I initiated a couple times but the conversations were short ...and before all of this we were talking every day. Now it's been almost two weeks and not a single word. So the question is...what just happened?
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 She's not into you...it doesn't matter why and you'll never find out exactly why from her perspective unless you outright ask her but she'll feel bad and lie about it most likely or crush you...either way it does you no good. She didn't feel it with you after meeting you, if she would have liked you it would have happened the first time around, she gave it a second try and it still didn't click. Some other guy probably came into the picture and caught her interest, and that's where she's at now or she's just ignoring you because she's done with you. She doesn't want to be your friend, she just said that because it means there's no emotions/attraction/interest there, she was just trying to be polite. You can't let yourself get worked up over these experience, you've got to keep moving instead of trying to figure out why it didn't work, it doesn't matter....really it doesn't, you're just in disbelief/shock and can't accept it. 1
Author NateC Posted December 3, 2012 Author Posted December 3, 2012 She's not into you...it doesn't matter why and you'll never find out exactly why from her perspective unless you outright ask her but she'll feel bad and lie about it most likely or crush you...either way it does you no good. She didn't feel it with you after meeting you, if she would have liked you it would have happened the first time around, she gave it a second try and it still didn't click. Some other guy probably came into the picture and caught her interest, and that's where she's at now or she's just ignoring you because she's done with you. She doesn't want to be your friend, she just said that because it means there's no emotions/attraction/interest there, she was just trying to be polite. You can't let yourself get worked up over these experience, you've got to keep moving instead of trying to figure out why it didn't work, it doesn't matter....really it doesn't, you're just in disbelief/shock and can't accept it. That's what I needed to hear. You're definitely right. I'm just a bit uh...confused of the sudden turnaround. I'm definitely over that though after the initial "huh?" response. She still has me friended on facebook but that really doesn't make a difference - I've since removed her from my phone too.
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