nj1987 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 I Like this girl and it also seems she likes me but she wont tell me. Whenever I text her she replies back within minutes or seconds. And when were at work shes more quiet around me then compared to other co workers. At work she stares at me and smiles. I bought a new cell phone and somehow lost her number then when at work I saw her I told her and she told me she'll text it to me at night. Then at 4am she texted me "guess who this is" and we talked till 5am. She knows that I like her and she has told me she doesnt like me the way I like her but I think shes lying.
NateC Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Sorry to say, but you've likely been friendzoned, so to speak. She doesn't want a relationship but enjoys your company. It happens - you have a great friend and that's likely it, although it depends on some things. How old are you? Her?
NateC Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 The age gap is there but not too much ...although from experience (I'm 22) most girls around that age aren't exactly looking for much other than "flings" or other short-term things. Of those that are actually looking for a relationship, many do what you describe ...which can be frustrating when they give mixed signals. Try making *her* initiate conversations and such sometimes. Giving too much is a road towards being heartbroken by getting too attached only to find she really does only think of you as a friend. But...my honest opinion she just thinks of you as a friend - because I've had personal experience with this.
Cutiepie1976 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 ... She knows that I like her and she has told me she doesnt like me the way I like her but I think shes lying. She gave you a crystal clear answer. She is now free to flirt with you and accept whatever favors you give her with a clear conscience, because she explicitly told you to expect nothing in return. She enjoys the attention and having a fan club, but sees you as a friend. Sorry, but wishful thinking, claiming she's lying because it wasn't the answer you wanted, and hoping for a different outcome are just exercises in futility and frustration.
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