cjcjcj Posted August 10, 2004 Posted August 10, 2004 A guy I knew for a short period of time decided he didn't want to get involved in a relationship. We only went out a couple of times but he later confessed to me that he wasn't ready to start anything again with anybody. He seems to have had a lot of bad luck in relationships. He also told me he was too busy with his job to get involved with me. So I accepted his decision not to be involved with me. But now I feel like I wish we were friends, after all nothing romantic happened between us on our couple of dates. He hasn't tried to contact me in the last couple of days and I'm wondering if it would be a good idea to ask him if we could still be friends?? I'm not holding out for a relationship with him because I'm not sure what I want but I do know that I enjoyed talking to him. I feel strange that it all ended before it began. So should I try to pose the friends question with him or not??
EC Posted August 10, 2004 Posted August 10, 2004 He went on a couple dates with you and he figured out it just wasn't going to work and he hasn't called you since....But.... I'm a believer in do what you feel so if you feel the need to pick up the phone and call him then call him. Tell him you just want to be friends and you are not expecting anything because you know he's not ready. I say call .....whats the worst that could happen?
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