ex acting crazy texting me sending pics

[alexa137]

after 6 weeks of breaking up the past week my ex has been texting me first it started off as a phone call at 3am that he denied the next day, so i left it alone, then got a text asking me i wanted a coupon for nike store, i said yes but never got it because i didnt want to leave my car open for him to put it in( i thought he wanted to see me) then fri night 1am asking me if i was up to give me the coupon, i didnt get it til hrs later and not much said after that, then this morning woke up to a penis pic saying lol look at your blanket, oh and if you are dating someone, sorry!!! all i responded then was i was wondering where my blanket was, he offered to give it back, i said i idont care he said he would leave it at my front door, ok so hrs later he sends a video of him masturbating, saying that hes horny and hes not dating anyone so he had to get in touch with his masturbation side! i didnt say much, really didnt appreciate it then he starts asking if im horny and if the pic and video made me horny etc. i didnt respond then few hrs later he says he might bring the blanket and something else of mine over but then makes some excuse that the blanket is in the dryer and he would bring it over another day and let me know, then! he says hes on his way home, "unless i want some "d***"

i replied I AM not a booty call! wow really!smh- he said no disrespect. i got busy but then decided to say, "thanks for proving to me that i didnt mean anything to you and now its so much easier!( i meant getting over him)

i felt so mad! i couldnt believe he would think i would sleep with him! after how much he hurt me and told me that i was everything he didnt want!

so we argued back and forth and he seems mad or whatever, saying that he treated me good etc, and that he can sex anywhere and he wasnt begging me for it, and something about me letting old exs that were no good come back to me for sex etc... and a bunch of other nonsense, i just told him i dont want to argue and remember how he broke up with me. basically just leave me alone, i did tell him that yes he did treat me good when we were together and did everything i wanted and time etc and everything else, but he already knew that, i told him that when we were together and when we broke up.

i just dont know his intentions, he just messing with my head, he also made the comment : out of sight, out of mind" which i agree, but was also bringing up a few memories or us together! im not a mean person, i should be since he broke my heart, but its not me!

why is he still contacting me? does he miss me? the sex? what men are so weird and stupid

ugh!grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

[Toddbt12y1]

If he's bothering you to that extent you can block him...

[alexa137]

really? how do you block people from texting you????

[sharsh]

My ex is doing the same. He contacts me about once a week trying to get me to hook up with him. Just last week I started no contact.

 

I don't understand it either. It has me confused. Did he really love me? Am I just a bootycall? What is it? I don't get it. I thought I meant more than that..

[alexa137]

its so confusing! i mean if you broke up with me and said dont call me dont text me dont visit me nothing and now after 6 weeks you start texting me etc??/

i was doing so good the past 2 weeks you know out of sight out of mind, nut yea the memories are still there, i think of him at least once a day, there are just too many memories in everyday life which sucks! wish someone would hot me over the head! the day he broke up with me he acted like an *******!

today made me mad because you thinking im a booty call? no way, after we spent everyday together?!?! what is that bs?

why cant they just leave you alone/ they have to mess with your head and hurt you over and over again! and it takes years to go away!

i even told him i didnt want to argue about this and that it was hurting me and he said its whatever! and started in a rampage about how he spent money on me didnt cheat or lie to me and treated me better than any other guy, which is true! but breaking up with me because i couldnt get a hold of you one day for 10 hrs and was a little crazy by texting and calling him 10 or maybe 20 times in those 10 hrs! i didnt know your phone battery was dead at work! but now that i finally upgraded to an android phone i completely understand! mine dies twice a day and i dont even do as much as ppl on an iphone! anyways, i dont know if i wanna block his number or not, I did delete it out of my phone the day after he broke up with me, he hurt me so much, i cried everyday for hrs, then was good only cried on the weekends(thats when we spent the most time together) now lately i havent cried in about 2 weeks

[sharsh]

I still break down every other day or so. Mostly when I'm left to myself. My only advice is to do what I'm doing. If you don't want to block his number yet (I don't want to block my exes number yet, I'm not ready) just don't reply to anything he texts you. No matter how angry he makes you or how far he gets under your skin with his texts, don't reply. By replying and arguing with him you're letting him know he's getting to you.

[Treasa]

Tell him your current boyfriend (who incidentally is huge and has an equally huge penis) is getting pissed and has now asked you where your ex lives, so he better lay off.

 

What a freaking pig.

[jwhite]

Ya. This guy is a weirdo and obviously in love with his member.

 

"Well I dont have her? At least I still got him!"---lol

 

I am dealing with narcissism as a defense mechanism too. It is fake and I think he will be crying a lot over you soon...or already has been

[spaniard]

you know... my ex, she never sends any naked picture of herself

 

anyway, here is what you should do:

 

1) tell him that he crossed the line and you want him to leave you alone.. and you are not interested in his penis anymore

2) if he says ok, you can start NC and move on

3) if he says ok, but sends you his penis again, block his number

4) if that doesn't help either, go to police.