Starman8 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Met a girl from Europe early this year through volunteer work and saw her once a week for about an hour. We had instant chemistry and always got along great. She went home for the summer and when she left we decided to keep in touch and continue along with our relationship outside of volunteer work. I guess you could say I had a crush on her. When she came back this fall she instantly let me know and we hung out for the first time. We had a blast and the chemistry was there. We talked about doing other things together and it ended on a high note. Without giving too much away, I really tried to give her the impression that I was into her between then and our next meeting which happened the other night. Once again, we had a great time with lots of energy and laughter. She mentioned things we should do together in the future several times including traveling to her home country this summer with her. She's going home for X-Mas in a few weeks but we planned on getting together before then. At the end of the night she walked with me to my subway stop and waited with me despite the cold weather. I thought this was the best opportunity to kiss her at the end of the night. Well, after she hugged me I went for it and she turned and gave me her cheek. I said "how about the lips"? and she said no and started walking away. I wished her a good weekend as she walked off and texted her to let her know I made it home. No response. I'm not sorry for what I did at all, but it sucks cause I really like her and she is really everything I want in a woman. This has never happened before. Does she have to make the next move? Is there any romantic chance with this girl? I thought it made sense to kiss her and now I am confused.
lakerman34 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Your whole story sounds confusing, man. I think she may like you, but doesn't see it happening. I've tried LDR twice, and they are REALLY hard and in order for them to work, the people involved need: a) To both be in it 100% b) Have an end plan This tends to be easier for guys than girls. She may not be into it, man. I say just delete her number, her Facebook, and any other means of communication and move on.
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