ls32ssibm Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 I am 24, out of college, work full time and am taking graduation courses on the internets. Was never a frat guy, nor was I ever friends with any of those mongoloids (I'm sure some are okay somewhere, but not the one's I've seen). Anyway, I have been on several dates now with a 21 year old college senior in a sorority. It's going well. But, before I get too emotionally vested in her, I am weighing the fact that she goes to Frat/Sorority mixers (and will for the next year at least), which are basically where they get together, get plastered and the guys try to bang sorority chicks. The girls may think it's something it's not but after talking to some people that's all the guys are there for. Question of the day; is she trustworthy? I don't know. I think so. She seems like she'd be so far. But her college and sorority life are 100% separated from our relationship thus far, so I have no idea what she's doing. Thoughts?
MrCastle Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Proceed with caution. I'm in college (not in a frat) but I've heard stories. It's not fair to judge her individually by what other sorority girls are known for doing, but at the same time it's foolish to think she's the complete opposite of every other sorority girl either. There's a medium in there somewhere.
dasein Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 College women go to parties and bars all the time where men are trying to have sex with them, old news. Don't see where a sorority party would be particular cause for concern v what any other women do.
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 I was a sorority girl it's not a big deal of you like her date her.
Balzac Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 I've dated sorority girls and was not Greek. Honestly I think the particular campus makes a difference. On some campuses Greek life is the only real opportunity for sociall events. Your comment about trust? Do you mean she socializes Greek and you maybe attend only formal social events? Trust her to be sexually exclusive with you? Am I reading that correctly?
Author ls32ssibm Posted December 3, 2012 Author Posted December 3, 2012 I've dated sorority girls and was not Greek. Honestly I think the particular campus makes a difference. On some campuses Greek life is the only real opportunity for sociall events. Your comment about trust? Do you mean she socializes Greek and you maybe attend only formal social events? Trust her to be sexually exclusive with you? Am I reading that correctly? Basically saying she seems trustworthy but I don't know her well enough. Yes to be exclusive should we choose to be. I haven't slept with her yet, she is far from the easiest girl I've dated.
Balzac Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 She's a junior? You mentioned one more year. Is she going into the job market or grad school?
Author ls32ssibm Posted December 3, 2012 Author Posted December 3, 2012 She's a junior? You mentioned one more year. Is she going into the job market or grad school? She says the job market?
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