SmileFace Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 Anyway ... looking for a bit of advice. I have a couple threads on l.s about this same guy. Having an idea of the past will make this post more understanding.Quick back story. We dated while we were on internship together. We both planned to stay in the area of the internship but I ended up returning home. The dating stopped on my end. We reconnected when I visited a few months later and started talking as we never stopped dating. We tried to plan a visit ( on my end, since I could afford the trip and he had better housing options). The plan fell thru a couple of times since he never could line up his dates right. However I always got blamed for this and recieved crap when I referenced money since I knew he made less than me. We were talking and acting as if we were in a relationship but he wouldn't allow any titles. I tried to end it on my part a couple of times but he resisted. The most recent event ending up me buying a plane ticket to see him but he told me he had to be out of town the last two days of my visit and I couldn't stay by him. So at that point I ended it. I was already doing too much and that was the straw that broke the camels back. I implemented No contact... I blocked his calls and texts and deleted him on FB. I think readded me on Fb the day after I deleted him and I ignored it and last week(which is two months into no contact) added me again which I also ignored What made me post today Last night he wrote me on FB... Which I may have only replied to because I was drunk and supposedly so was he. Which I find funny... my first night being drunk in over 7 months and he writes me. I have the bestest luck. -- He wrote me asking to be friends and giving me his number and asked me to text him. I said ok. Then I told him I couldn't since his number was blocked and then he accused me of only replying because I was drunk and told him I only happened to be drunk. Anyway... I got home and called him but I have his number blocked so I kind of saved myself from that one. That was about 8 hours ago. Anyway he wrote me again about 20 mins ago and said something like. 'I guess you are not going to contact me ... you must be over it." Which I replied... "Over what?" ... anyway he said "Nothing" and I may not hear from him. However I don't get what he wants from me. I was going to pick up and move half way across the country to be near him and he wouldn't even call me his girlfriend or pay a cent to come see me. I am no way entertaining getting back with him but I am not over him but I know this needed to end. I just don't get what he wants from me. This is more a vent than anything else. I mean he had his chance and as far as I know he is dating someone. Why doesn't he just leave it alone. I hate how it ended but I don't know what he wantsme to do. Even the last comment is putting the blame on me again.
Author SmileFace Posted December 2, 2012 Author Posted December 2, 2012 He kind of sounds like a jerk ... Eh... probably. I just wish he would leave me alone.
soccerrprp Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 yeah, a jerk...playing games. block him entirely. you can do that in FB, right?
Author SmileFace Posted December 3, 2012 Author Posted December 3, 2012 (edited) yeah, a jerk...playing games. block him entirely. you can do that in FB, right? Yeah... I can block him on facebook. I will look into doing that. Edited December 3, 2012 by SmileFace
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