She likes me but doesn't want a relationship with anyone ...what am I to do ?

[Hucker3rd]

I've been with this girl from class for about a year now..last year she developed feelings for me and I for her and it isn't until this year that she actually confessed it to me claiming that she's over me this year. When I was discussing this with two my friends...one of them told me that a week ago when he asked her if she liked me or not she said she was crazy about me and she was trying to make me like her again (I never stopped liking her). A month passed and one day we were talking on chat and she was like " I love you" and she went on to say how much she loves me and how every time she tries to get close I inch away...then when I asked if she was serious she told me that she used to like me and she tried as hard as she could to get rid of her feelings for me because she just doesn't want a relationship with anyone and if she wanted one she would have dated me by now. She's going to study in the university of her dreams in Canada and I'm going to study in Florida...so she was like I want to follow you to Florida to be with you and study there, I told her that as much as that would make me happy I don't want her to do this since the college of her dreams is in Canada...she also said that if her feelings ever resurface she's not gonna tell me about it... I still like her though and it's kinda hard to get over her when I see her everyday in school and the thing is I can never know if she still has feelings for me or will in the future because she said that she will never tell me. I still like her a lot and I don't know why she wants to come to Florida...frankly I'm lost and have no idea what to do...please help!

[mammasita]

I don't even have to read your entire post. "I don't want a relationship with anyone". Anyone includes you no matter how much she claims to "like" you.

[Hucker3rd]

I don't even have to read your entire post. "I don't want a relationship with anyone". Anyone includes you no matter how much she claims to "like" you.

If she had feelings for me last year then why didn't she tell me unless she doesn't want to be in a relationship... Let me quote what she said "Well. It's not exactly regular for me to fall for someone.So when I do, I try to deny my feelings to the max. Until I just Somehow eventually let go of them and that's what I did when I felt like I started falling for you."

[mammasita]

If she had feelings for me last year then why didn't she tell me unless she doesn't want to be in a relationship... Let me quote what she said "Well. It's not exactly regular for me to fall for someone.So when I do, I try to deny my feelings to the max. Until I just Somehow eventually let go of them and that's what I did when I felt like I started falling for you."

 

Because: see bolded statement above.

 

I mean that really is the bottom line. It's not you, there is nothing wrong with you. It's that she isn't ready, willing or emotionally available.