sadpanda87 Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 im guessing this is a common problem - after the break up, you'll have things that belonged to her and now i dont know what to do with it. she lives in another city now, it was a very bad break up of a long term relationship about to turn into marriage. anyhow the clothes, jewlery and whatnot i guess i can drop off at her place next time i go but... what should i do with the love notes and letters etc that i still have? i cant really bring myself to burn them, but seeing them makes me feel like crying and giving them back seems... well, suggestive. im well aware that the relationship is gone (hence the break up some months back) and its probably best i dont do anything that seems like me trying to remind her of what we had. i know most of you will tell me to just throw the letters away, it just seems like im throwing away 5 years of my life... thats all there is left of what i fought so hard for.
lakerman34 Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 Put them in a box, throw them in the attic, give them to a friend, somewhere where you don't have easy access to them. Then go COMPLETE NC. 1
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