Was she hitting on me?

[shadow15]

Alright this happened about a week ago, but im still a little confused about it. Any who, this girl invited me to come over her house at like 12 at night, she was home alone to just hang and chill, nothing big. I didnt expect anything of it, we was just sitting there watching tv, she was on the computer getting random msgs from guys, but we was there making jokes about them you know just goofing around.

 

However, she was talking to this one dude who she messed around with, nothing big cause we was also cracking jokes about that as well, but heres the confusing part. She like leans in and bites me in the back, i liked it and i just look at her like hmm whats that for, and she just replied as im a biter, and im like oh really now. I just left it at that, and then soon after i left. I just got out of a relationship so im kinda getting fresh back into the game but was she hitting/flirting on/with me and was she expecting some other stuff?

 

Im kinda biting myself in the ass cause i wish i would have made a move or sumin, (very pretty girl) but i didnt know how she felt about it because i recently made out with her best friend for a one night thing (bout 2 months ago), so i didnt know what to expect if she thought i hit on her as well lol, she did bring that up btw.We have talked here and there lately but nothing big, i even asked her to go to the movies with me but no reply. Im not msging her back since she didnt reply to me, but still makes ya wonder about that night.

 

Im mainly just looking for some tips and hints to try to remind me when a girl is hitting on me and is interested, i like to know when they are interested.

[phineas]

After my divorce I blew so many chances with women when I was in the same situation.

 

Here is my rule: if she wants to "hang-out" one-on-one at either of your places, you go for it.

 

Period.

 

Think about women who weren't attracted to you or other guys, unless you or the guy are one of those completely hopeless dudes afraid to kiss a girl they never would hang-out with you alone.

 

so it's game on if they do.

 

I once asked the first woman I managed to have sex with after divorce who came to my house to "hang out" what would of happened if I didn't make the move & she told me "i'd think you didn't like me"

 

Granted she was the type of woman who dates the types of guys who go for sex on the first date.

 

My experience anyways.

 

If you try to chase her, she will friend-zone you.

Let her contact you or wait a week or two then invite her over to hang & maybe she will see you as a challenge.

 

It's the only way I've recovered from such blunders.

Edited December 2, 2012 by phineas

[shadow15]

yea i always have trouble getting myself into the friend zone, hell i think thats what happened to my past relationship which is weird considering we was dating for 2 years, she told me i consider you more as a best friend and dont love you anymore; we didnt have sex, just did everything else, idk, but thats a different story. Any tips on how to not present as a friend and as a partner for future dates?

[yongyong]

she bit you and you didn't bang her???

 

you know how biting is really a rough sexual act?

 

I think she did all she could and realized you are sexually wrong in some way.

 

Facepalm geez......