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We began talking in January, hit things off right off the bat. had a stupid argument in June which led to the breakup, but it was an accident. I went over to his house at 5 am right after to talk to him and take it back and make it work and he was so upset. We went over the summer talking still kinda seeing eachother. Around september things got really good for us. Like really good. it was like our old relationship. Then I brought up the "being official" comment because I had seen him email people and refer to me as his girlfriend. He told me we still had thigns to figure out, and he would think about how to word it and get back to me. A day passed and I didn't hear from him so I freaked out ( something I did that was a problem in our old relationship) Pushed him for an answer as to why he was ignoring me, he got fed up said he told me we need a break so I can fix these old problems of mine ( not trusting him, overreacting, etc.) Anyways, I don't trust him because i'm constanty hearing he is talking to this girl or this girl. We've been seeing eachother hanging out but nothing official obviously, but He has an anonymous account, our most recent problem. He knows I know about this account. On this account, a girl from Kentucky with the twitter name , "Big Booty Judy, I kid you not, tweets all the time to him about sex and how "we need to do this"

 

Well, this was about 2 months ago she posts a pic of some of their messages and it was NOT OKAY the things he was saying to him. I call him out on it, he says she is trying to make her ex boyfriend jealous. I didn't believe it so I dropped it and just tried to be happy.

Well, about a week later I see her posting about how she is driving to our state, Georgia, to visit him. I thought okay she knows about me she is trying to get a rise out of me.

Well, When I head home from work, I see her car there.

 

Some of my shorts were there so I went to his door, out of impulse walk in ask where she is, and slap him across the face and walk out. he blew up my phone that night calling me and we had an hour long convo about me saying how ****ty he treats me and how bad he makes me feel. He told me to calm down and talk to him when I do. About 3 days later he says it is over and that me laying my hand on him ended it, I apologized for that and he accepted it. Well, about 2 weeks after that I had a shirt of his so he came over to pick it up. We ended up kissing and he said we have things we need to figure out. He said we will sit down and talk about it.

 

My semi-formal for my sorority was last night. I had asked him months ago to be my date and he said he would. As the breaks were happening it was obvious he wasn't going to be, but I still wanted him to be. So as the week was going on I was asking him if we would talk and he said he was so busy he didn't know. I said okay well I would like to talk to you before my semi. He kept saying "all you care about is your semi blah blah blah" So He never made time for me and I didn't see him so I asked another guy last minute that my friend introduced me to for the sole reason of having someone to go with. Today, I see him. And he is pissed off at me for "going on a double date( I didnt, we hung out for an hour at my friends house so I could meet him" and for taking this guy to semi. I explained why I did and he just didn't believe me. Well, little did I know, he has invited another girl from Twitter that he didn't know over. She is from a closer state, but still HE DOESNT KNOW HER. She is currently staying the weekend. When I found out I blew up his phone and told him off. He has ignored me all day. He is now posting on twitter that I started following today, so he knows that, that " It is a perfect night because he is with his girl"

 

He just met her YESTERDAY. Why is he doing this? Advice? I want to be happy again and he makes me so pissed off.

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I need to quit looking at his anonymous twitter, he is posting things on it such as " I believe in what is real. And this is real."

 

How the hell can his feelings for her be real? he literally just met her!? Thoughts pleasE? I'm going mad.

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You need to stop following him talking yo him and block him. You are victimizing yourself at this moment. You allow a cheat and manipulator to come back into your life...so you where played again. I am sorry...do what's right for you alone get rid of this blameshifting jerk.

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I am I blocked him on everything including his number. I just need to quit looking at it because it is really bothering me. What is funny though is that he is posting this stuff on his anonymous, not his personal twitter.

 

Why is he doing it though? Do you think these feelings are real or is he trying to get under my skin since I uninvited him to my dance?

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Whether he is or is t doing this to bother you is moot. I would go out and live my life not look. Preoccupy yourself with something else. Go be silly or wild. But delete any twitter junk that leads you into looking. Besides people never post the truth of how they feel on these sites...especially ppl like him dear :) the reason why just doesn't matter trust me.

In looking or knowing you'll only hurt yourself sweetness.

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I know I need the strength to quit looking. It is always easier for me to move on once I block them from everything so I just pray for healing real soon. He is beyond manipulative and the definition of double standards!

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I know I need the strength to quit looking. It is always easier for me to move on once I block them from everything so I just pray for healing real soon. He is beyond manipulative and the definition of double standards!

 

Strength comes in time. Gain strength by being more active . Try it. Be randomly Flirty to help build you up that you'll or could have anyone else whenever you're willing.

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Do you think I need to mature and grow up like he thinks or is he in the wrong?

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He needs to mature up.

You are just fine. Just you need to absolutely NC his butt.

But yeah pretty lady he is in the wrong :) what a jerk to tell you that.

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Yeah I know. I figured I might need a little since I blow up on him and call him names and talk about him to other people, but seriously like he drives me mad and I told him that. NC starts now!!

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Yeah I know. I figured I might need a little since I blow up on him and call him names and talk about him to other people, but seriously like he drives me mad and I told him that. NC starts now!!

 

You go girl! I am glad you are NC! Not immature for it...its apart of the process. You talk about him all you like as bad as you like. Even on here you vent too. He's just a loser dick for what he did to you cutie :)

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