leo88 Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 I dated this girl for 3 months not a long time but still those 3 months was so awesome we had a great time together, i didn't want the relationship at first.. Well i did but not at that time lol i am very sorry if i am a sloppy speller & typer just a long day anyways... I came over 1 day after we skyped for 6567553 hours she asked me to log on fb and change my status i wanted to say No but her eyes made me say yes lol... Our first 2 months was great until the mid of the 2nd month where i got to run my shop working 7 days as manager and after work i would be dead tired so i blame myself for not communicating much "i work from 9:00am - 10:pm" but before i head to work i text her "Good Morning Gorgeous".. So this continues for 2.5 weeks and i guess she feels like i didn't give her much attention so she dumped me... She called me crying really hard i could tell the time when we spend together she was in love with me telling me its for the best and she didn't want to hurt me... We talked but not long enough i told her I respect your decision, wish you well, and don't wish no evil upon you, I cherish every minutes, hours, & days with you, You completed me.. After the break we didn't contact each other for 2 weeks and after i log in to facebook she blocked me :/ i understand that i was a terrible ex i should of spend more time telling her my emotions and open my heart more i really liked this girl but i am not going to chase her because what i know is that it would push her further away, i feel sad but i have to hope for the best, i am working on myself to improve better... Is there anyway i can get this girl to have this feeling for me again i understand that the feeling wont be the same as where we first met.. Any advice is welcome thanks guys and yes go ahead and B***H at me for being a terrible ex i think i deserved a punch in the face...
na49 Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 Okay it must still be early so it's okay that you are being harsh on yourself. Right after the BU, it's normal to feel the way you do. The reality is that you ARE NOT a terrible ex. You need to worry about yourself before you worry about other people. Now I don't know the exact reason why you didn't give her any attention after a while, was it because you were tired after work? If that's the case then don't beat yourself up. Could you have tried to make time? Probably. Should you beat yourself up for it? No. You probably will but look at it as a learning experience and in your next relationship you'll arrange a bit more time for the person you're with. If you work that long every day, I'm not sure if there's anything you could have done to be honest. Only time will tell what happens between you two, but you are making the right move in not chasing her. Don't talk to her and don't respond to her if she sends you a message. I'd also suggest not checking her facebook because nothing you see on there can help you. (you find out that she has been loving life without you and doesn't miss you at all) So just stay strong, and let time do it's thing.
Author leo88 Posted December 2, 2012 Author Posted December 2, 2012 thanks for the reply what sucks is that We both go to the same college ugh I want to picture negatives thoughts of her in my mind but i can't she is a sweet girl, loving, caring, honest and loyal...
na49 Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 lol I go to the same college as my ex too, so I have to see her in two classes for the next two weeks. Then risk seeing her around campus until we graduate. Take her off the pedestal you put her on, she really isn't all that and although you only remember the good right now remind yourself of the bad. As great as you think she is, think of yourself that way. You aren't any worse than she is.
Author leo88 Posted December 2, 2012 Author Posted December 2, 2012 there isn't any bad about her lol... Sad part is we didn't argue or fight once when we were together all she does was talk about having my childrens...
Sugarkane Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 If you think you were that terrible you should read my old posts of how I was treated and some of other people on here.
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