Tentative Date For Tomorrow, Do I show?

[Kristine]

This guy I'm supposed to meet I've talked to a year ago and out of the blue heard from him again. He is flying in from a different state and said he would need to talk to his cousin about borrowing the car.

 

I have attempted to contact him since setting a tentative date but no word on his end. Do I show up and face the possibility of being stood up or do I just assume it's not really set since he hasn't given the official word.

 

I honestly don't know if he will, he e-mailed pictures of hiimself, he was very chatty prior to setting up the date and time, but after that not a word. Is it off, on, what?

[Gattka405]

hes trying to get you to chase after him. when that doesnt work he'll keep coming;) back until he gets bored or you catch on

[Kristine]

I don't really understand that, but I'm not chasing him because he's not my favorite date this week. I just really want to know if I should show up or let it go?

[RachR]

If I had a tentative date and the other person didn't respond at my contacts to confirm it, then no, I would not show up.

[Cutiepie1976]

Agree. If you tried to confirm, and heard nothing, then I wouldn't turn up.

 

By the way, he sent you pictures...Have you sent him pictures? Before or after he went incommunicado?

[NoMoreJerks]

I wouldn't show up. You contacted him. He could've replied.

[dasein]

Would call and leave a VM, wires get crossed, you never know with all these discounted carriers out there today. I get texts from weeks in the past sometimes and have had people get mad at me for not returning messages I never got on my phone. Then if he doesn't return the VM, don't go.

[Eternal Sunshine]

I would show up if it's not too far out of my way. And I would bring a book

[MyPoutine]

It's common curtesy to confirm a date beforehand, you said it wasn't confirmed yet. Perhaps he contacted other women he knew in the area and found someone else more interesting? Either way that's lame, don't go.