Necromancer Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 This myth that women wont like you because you are awkward is bull****. Easther Vilar summed this well up: Woman´s demands on life will always be materialistic never intellectual. Written by a woman lol. They don´t give a **** about your personality. Only face and don´t be under 5´5 manlet.
Pyro Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 Spot on since you have so much experience with women. 1
Author Necromancer Posted December 2, 2012 Author Posted December 2, 2012 Spot on since you have so much experience with women. Thanks i feel like i should writing a ebook about women. would be sold in billions of copies.
Pyro Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 Make it paperback because I want you to autograph me a copy. I have so much to learn from you.
threebyfate Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 You're so right, necromancer. This guy's so hawt! http://www.aaronmead.com/resume/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/MattHowellSmallHead.jpg
Pyro Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 You're so right, necromancer. This guy's so hawt! http://www.aaronmead.com/resume/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/MattHowellSmallHead.jpg Beetlejuice!
IT Geek Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 They don´t give a **** about your personality. Only face and don´t be under 5´5 manlet. And your body. If you're overweight you're pretty much out of luck in the love department.
carhill Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 In that first ten seconds, for a women who lives and dies by that first ten seconds, whatever physical presence you present will rule. There is little else to process through the senses at that point. Hence, if your facial features match up with what that particular woman finds to be sexually attractive, you have traction and potential for the period beyond those ten seconds. If not, abyss. Awkwardness is tangential to this process. It might become a factor further down the road but not during those ten seconds. TBH, I've never had an issue with that dynamic, as long as the lady was honest that there was no ten second potential nor traction for any future romantic relationship. It was the ones who created the illusion of attraction to satiate their own needs which burned the strongest memories and taught the best lessons. Thanks for that 1
mesmerized Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 Why does it come as a surprise to you That women want a man that is pleasing to the eyes?
fortyninethousand322 Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 Why does it come as a surprise to you That women want a man that is pleasing to the eyes? That shouldn't be surprising to anyone. But, sometimes "pleasing on the eyes" is subjective... 1
Imported Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 And your body. If you're overweight you're pretty much out of luck in the love department. Because it takes a lot of luck to not over eat and workout or just be more active than stare at a screen all day. Your body, at least pertaining to being in shape/out of shape is the result of your*choices.
Ross MwcFan Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 I'm shy/awkward, my height is average to above average, and suppsedly I'm really hot. Some women have hated me, others have liked me, but I'm talking like as in just 'like', not like as in being attracted to me.
fortyninethousand322 Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 Because it takes a lot of luck to not over eat and workout or just be more active than stare at a screen all day. Your body, at least pertaining to being in shape/out of shape is the result of your*choices. True. Though, for some people it takes more work than others. I know some people who work out maybe 3 hours a week tops and have great bodies. Where others might have to do 2 hours a day just to have half decent bodies. For some people spending half your life in the gym while eating spinach and wheat grass (and dismissing tasty food forever) everyday isn't worth it. I'm not making excuses for those people, but we have to be just a little bit honest.
IT Geek Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 And guys will only like you if you have a nice body. Not true. In fact, I'd rather date a curvy girl than someone who is skinny. I like being able to snuggle and feel like I'm next to a woman instead of Skeletor. However, it appears (to me at least) that the same can't be said if the roles are reversed.
Imported Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 True. Though, for some people it takes more work than others. I know some people who work out maybe 3 hours a week tops and have great bodies. Where others might have to do 2 hours a day just to have half decent bodies. For some people spending half your life in the gym while eating spinach and wheat grass (and dismissing tasty food forever) everyday isn't worth it. I'm not making excuses for those people, but we have to be just a little bit honest. You can be fit looking without working out at all. Eat portions meant for a human and you will thin out. Some of the people I know that, "don't want to spend their life in the gym and eat like a bird".......spend far far far more time than 3 hours everyday playing video games, TV and other crap that not only doesn't give anything back to you for your effort, but one day they'll wake up and realize what a waste it was and all they lost because of it. And these people usually eat enough for a family of five for the whole day in one "meal". Damn the luck. I saw a fat lady get three large pizza's at Costco the other day. She didn't fool me. That wasn't for anyone but her. She most likele ated all three pizza's that night and then probably tell her co-workers....because who else is forced to listen to her.....how she works out and eat right but still can't lose weight.
yongyong Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 You always bring up some B.S to make yourself feel like a sxit. why do you do that? I know a living example of very good looking guy who doesn't get sxit. Have you ever attracted women just based on your personal impression? I have many. usually from online or short conversation at a bar. I also f-cked it up at 1st dates. If it was all about face and my vibe, why they didn't go further? because you need to know how to build emotional connection. Maybe you don't even get to audition at all? As far as good looking weird guy banging girls, I don't know. guys won't admit they can't girls. girls won't admit they banged him just for his looks. For me, I don't mind banging the sxit out of pretty chick with weird behavior like rest of the guys.
aed Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 This myth that women wont like you because you are awkward is bull****. Easther Vilar summed this well up: Woman´s demands on life will always be materialistic never intellectual. Written by a woman lol. They don´t give a **** about your personality. Only face and don´t be under 5´5 manlet. I don't understand the point of this thread. IF you have a nice body but not a great face girls will bangs you. If have a great face but average body girls will bang you. If you have a really outgoing, fun and seductive interacting with them, they will bang you. When a girl likes you it doesn't matter how you look and what your flaws are. She willl like you! When a girl likes a man: being shy or introverted will be seen as being mysterious . Being arrogant will become being confident. And I even expirienced woman how said they hated a man's hair on his chest, changes completely when she likes a guy with those traits. I have read or heard about a study, don't remember this completely: There was a speeddating contest. All the woman needed to take a test and that would describe what kind of men they where attracted to. After the speeddates the subscribed for different dates. Most of them showed interest in different men then they described. They where ask to do the same test and they added traits from the guy they liked and just met. And started to describe that type of men during the week when they took the same test again. After 3 weeks (and dates didn't work out) they where all back to first description of their ideal man. Men probably do this also, but hey this is about women 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 You can be fit looking without working out at all. Eat portions meant for a human and you will thin out. Some of the people I know that, "don't want to spend their life in the gym and eat like a bird".......spend far far far more time than 3 hours everyday playing video games, TV and other crap that not only doesn't give anything back to you for your effort, but one day they'll wake up and realize what a waste it was and all they lost because of it. And these people usually eat enough for a family of five for the whole day in one "meal". Damn the luck. I saw a fat lady get three large pizza's at Costco the other day. She didn't fool me. That wasn't for anyone but her. She most likele ated all three pizza's that night and then probably tell her co-workers....because who else is forced to listen to her.....how she works out and eat right but still can't lose weight. You can lose weight without working out at all but you won't be athletic/fit looking. You'll just have average build, kind of flabby in some places but not really toned or anything. I know because I tried that method once. Anyway, I'm not really arguing about the merits of going to the gym. I happen to like lifting and running. It's fun and brings enjoyment to my life. But for some people they do like playing video games or whatever and it brings joy to their life and it isn't a "waste". To each their own. All I was saying is that looking fit and toned takes more work for some than it does for others. 1
IT Geek Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 When a girl likes you it doesn't matter how you look and what your flaws are. She willl like you! But she has to be attracted to you in the first place to like you.
Pyro Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 But she has to be attracted to you in the first place to like you. Looks alone will get you first dates and sometimes second or third dates. If you don't have a personality to back up your looks then you won't get any further than that. 1
aed Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 But she has to be attracted to you in the first place to like you. Yeah, but 'the whole she needs to be attracted FIRST is extremely overrated. It will get you an accidently make out or ONS. (And yes that is awesome!) But You need to do more then just being pretty. And I never heard of a fysical good looking guy how is socially a mute, that gets laid every 2 weeks with a different women. A good looking girl how is a mute, will get laid because: men. Look how different gay men en lesbian women operate from each other. In my country there are meeting places for gay men to have sexual encounters, and I am not talking about a gaybar, think about parkinglots etc. I never heard that there are lesbian meeting places, or meeting places where women offer just free casual sex, without any conversation.
Author Necromancer Posted December 3, 2012 Author Posted December 3, 2012 Looks alone will get you first dates and sometimes second or third dates. If you don't have a personality to back up your looks then you won't get any further than that. Pyro, you are better than this. Edit:Major advantage over all average men, better treatment in general and girls will make sex easy (even if you are an idiot).
Pyro Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 That just isn't true. Yes it is true. Pyro, you are better than this. Edit:Major advantage over all average men, better treatment in general and girls will make sex easy (even if you are an idiot). Yes women will have sex with a guy as long as he is good looking and nothing more. 1
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