candy 87 Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 i've posted a couple of previous threads about this guy friend of mine, and even on other forums..and of course i've asked my friends about him... and the word that keeps coming up when i talk about this guy and how he has acted and behaved is love :O:O.. of course.. no one will ever admits they're in love with you...definitely not a guy..but there are ways of telling i guess... i just want to know because if that is the case and i've been oblivious to it, it's better that i know now so i can act accordingly and not mess him around or anything ok so i won't go in to everything but just a few things that have happened and what he's said to me etc..that has even made me question what it is he's feeling.. ok so we have been friends with each other for three years now, but i met him five years ago...we lost contact in between for a couple of years... when we finally got in to contact again..he told me how he felt when he first met me..and how he couldn't take his eyes off me and had some crazy feelings inside which he could not put in to words..and then he said he should never have let me walk away.. (basically we lost contact and he didn't stop that from happening).i'm the one that got away to him..or was at the time..and then how every single day he was wishing for me to be beside him and how his heart broke when i wasn't around.. so the time we have been friends we got in to a few arguments..here and there..and then i stopped talking to him and then he stopped talking to me lol...and everytime that happened..he'll come back to me and then tell me how depressed he was and he couldn't sleep or eat, just thinking about me and him and how we weren't talking also another big detail..all this time he has been in touch with me he has dated no one... mostly that was because he wanted to sort his life out first and didn't have time for a relationship..and now that he does.. i'm the person he thought of first .. he's been asking me to see him now more often.. (we're friends but he said he wants more)for a long time now... he keeps saying i'm the only one he wants, and how he wants me more than anyone else...he kept telling me how he's got interest from so many other girls/women but he doesn't like any of them, how i'm the sweetest person he's ever met and known he's even mentioned marriage lots of time..and his plans for marriage.. how he wants to be in a relationship for a little while and then marry the girl..he asked me how i'd want my wedding in the future...and where i'd want to go for a honey moon lol and he keeps telling me that i should be thinking about these things we're still friends for now...because i've kept it that way... but in the time we've been friends he's been saying a lot to me
newmoon Posted December 2, 2012 Posted December 2, 2012 imo actions are nice and they do speak volumes about how someone feels for you. but do actions alone mean someone loves you? no. do they like you? yeah, probably a lot. but if a man says he loves you and can back it up with actions also then it's love, otherwise it's like/lust. simple, in my view.
Author candy 87 Posted December 2, 2012 Author Posted December 2, 2012 imo actions are nice and they do speak volumes about how someone feels for you. but do actions alone mean someone loves you? no. do they like you? yeah, probably a lot. but if a man says he loves you and can back it up with actions also then it's love, otherwise it's like/lust. simple, in my view. yes but we're only friends now, lol, we haven't even date or anything, so even if he felt that way i doubt he would say it to me, isn't that so? i don't think its easy for guys to say it
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