Author Vikki_26 Posted December 3, 2012 Author Posted December 3, 2012 Texted sunday night on advice from friend and still no reply. Would a guy who has man flu not look at his phone once in this time? I hope he texts tonight. If not then I do think its finished.
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Texted sunday night on advice from friend and still no reply. Would a guy who has man flu not look at his phone once in this time? I hope he texts tonight. If not then I do think its finished. Why does every girl have that one friend who knows nothing about men that's always there to give her the worst advice? And that's the advice she takes in the end because it's what she wanted to hear Sorry Vikki, but there's plenty of fish in the sea...and that's the one universal advice that people are right about......for once. Not that I'm saying he's not going to do the ole....."oh hey, sorry I was busy line", always a chance for that depending on his luck in dating and priorities.
DC4 Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 I know this will fall on deaf ears but you've got to take it slow and just let things pan out, there's no guarantees in dating or knowing, unless of course you make the effort and ask and figure it out, to find out what he's looking for and how he feels...most women are afraid to do that though and they make it extremely easy for men to be and do whatever they feel like...but remember, you don't have to just talk about general things, don't just be afraid and trying to make things go by perfectly, if you do that then a man can just see your gullibility and naivety and take advantage of it...try to stay composed and strong, and like you're doing your own thing as well and not just thinking about him all the time, once you show all your cards and just show all the interest because you want him to want to be into you then you're just accommodating a man way too much. Word. I'm in the process of doing the "fake it until you make it" thing. There's a guy I really like. We've had a bunch of awesome dates. He's not a big communicator-slow with texts and that sort of thing. It's my nature to answer calls/texts/emails as soon as I get them so I get thoroughly confused and put off when I don't get responses right away. short version: what Ninjainpajamas said, especially the last sentence.
truth_seeker Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 Why does every girl have that one friend who knows nothing about men that's always there to give her the worst advice? And that's the advice she takes in the end because it's what she wanted to hear ^^^+100 Do you know how many girls I might have had something potentially meaningful with but the stupid, naive, jealous friend had to convince her otherwise? I'm not talking about one night stand either, I'm talking about giving a man chance to go out on a date to see if we click.
truth_seeker Posted December 3, 2012 Posted December 3, 2012 What's also funny about Ninja's comment, that friend is most likely single.
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