Stillalive1 Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 What does mean if u r still in touch with an ex,broke up on good terms,u speak about a lot of things after a NC period but u can't talk about your love life?
CptSaveAho Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 ................................................................................................................. ive lost all hope in "man"-kind 1
joli_doll Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 It is what it is. It sounds like this ex senses you are unable to move on/hanging on to hope for reconciliation and would rather not talk about their love life to avoid hurting you.
aussietigerwolf Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 It is what it is. It sounds like this ex senses you are unable to move on/hanging on to hope for reconciliation and would rather not talk about their love life to avoid hurting you. Sounds like it to me
Author Stillalive1 Posted December 1, 2012 Author Posted December 1, 2012 (edited) Well i couldn't tell her too when i had another relationship,and yes a part of me still hopes,expecially when from time to time we talk about good times and we use to laugh together. She was anyway telling me for improvements in her life and i was doing the same. I m even hangin out with other girls,but the connection i have with her is stronger. It's a weird thing,i was in another relationship and when my dog passed away i contacted her,she get a promotion on her job and she contacted me immediately. Edited December 1, 2012 by Stillalive1
joli_doll Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 I'm guessing you didn't share info about your new relationship with her because it could damage your chances of reconciling? I consider contact with an ex like you are having to be normal, especially if things ended amicably. A connection was formed throughout the relationship that grew over time, like in any relationship. That bond with her you feel is stronger trumps over any other in a new relationship because they haven't been made yet. Some things that factor in the continued communication are the length of the relationship and how long it's been since the break up as well.
Author Stillalive1 Posted December 1, 2012 Author Posted December 1, 2012 (edited) Well she was close to me when my dad passed away,so this thing is definitely making her special and unique at my eyes. The moment he died she was crying more than me,i will never forget that day. Probably the fact she was close to me during that period generates a very strong connection from my side. It's a connection to my dad too. Edited December 1, 2012 by Stillalive1
joli_doll Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 My condolences It's perfectly normal for connections made at a time of loss to be strong and hold a different regard than other connections. It is something with a lot of meaning and you are not expected to forget. As for the contact you maintain with her, I'd suggest continuing your communications with her but not to get carried away unless she gives you a clear indication that she'd like to get back together and focus on yourself.
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