catluvr2 Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 I just got out of a 2 and a half year relationship 3 weeks ago. Though I'm handling it very well, I just thought about the depressing fact that most relationships aren't meant to last and how there are so many divorces nowadays. I'm honestly scared about getting into another relationship again because its just a fact that even though a relationship might be great, you don't know what might happen tomorrow. There's always that chance of your significant other leaving you the next day. =(
Trixis4kidz Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 You shouldn't leave your house. Always the chance you might get struck by a lightning. Or drive a car - you might get in an accident.
Toddbt12y1 Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 Heh. Life is about surprises and disappointments. True you or no one knows what may happen(it is true divorce, cheating, etc, are all more potent nowadays), it is best not to think of it...only try and see. Sign of times I am afraid.
gabbers Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 All relationships are not meant to last, infact few very do however the healthiest ones are the ones where you and your partner come to that understanding together. Not all feelings can be good, so I guess the point it is aim for relationships with people who have a great deal of respect and will always voice their feelings to you, it often helps people let go in the end. Humans aren't designed to be alone we need the companionship of others, having no one will only hurt more.
wheream_i Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 I just got out of a 2 and a half year relationship 3 weeks ago. Though I'm handling it very well, I just thought about the depressing fact that most relationships aren't meant to last and how there are so many divorces nowadays. I'm honestly scared about getting into another relationship again because its just a fact that even though a relationship might be great, you don't know what might happen tomorrow. There's always that chance of your significant other leaving you the next day. =( In a sad depressing way, I have to agree with you. I mean, just take a look around you (not you, in particular, but you know what I mean), divorce has become BIG business almost as big as planning a wedding. And that's a horrible thing. Not so much just about divorce, but the fact that it seems nothing is meant to last.
LostOne1 Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 I just got out of a 2 and a half year relationship 3 weeks ago. Though I'm handling it very well, I just thought about the depressing fact that most relationships aren't meant to last and how there are so many divorces nowadays. I'm honestly scared about getting into another relationship again because its just a fact that even though a relationship might be great, you don't know what might happen tomorrow. There's always that chance of your significant other leaving you the next day. =( it's true.. see I felt that when I started dating my ex.. because all my other relationships failed too. So I thought well this one could too, if girls in the past can leave me what makes me so sure this one won't. I guess the only reason I had was that we pushed it to 3 yrs and it was the longest time I spent with someone. But alas I think there can always be an end to it. I honestly never thought we would end only because we went on so long, that she had done things with me that she never did and that she introduced me to her family, which she has never done. I thought it meant she was serious and would work things out. I guess what it means is we can be scared and right now I am too. I'm kinda tired of chasing after a girl and then asking her out and showing interest. I think for once I want a girl to chase after me and show interest in me. But I won't like it;s hard to trust someone else again and let them in so close. But in reality we HAVE to if we want a relationship. It's the risk involved to have a relationship.
Author catluvr2 Posted December 2, 2012 Author Posted December 2, 2012 Even if you're in a relationship and/or married and you spend all your lives together....it's going to end eventually because one of you is going to die =(
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