soweird Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 My exboyfriend and I dated for 2 years. The first year was great. The second year, he treated me progressively worse and I found out later he cheated on me repeatedly with some of the nastiest bar hogs in our area. When I caught him, I left him. He ended up being in a relationship already with one of his bar hogs. (A woman who was also married and abandoned her children and husband to be with him. This was not her first affair, either. She is well known around our town as a gold digger, home wrecker, overweight, sleeps around, everything my ex told me he hated.) I make no contact with either of them and am dating someone else for the past year. I block his number, email, on Facebook; I have nothing to do with them. I moved on. For some reason, they both have crazy hostility towards me. If he hears that I am in a certain bar or club, he shows up, sometimes with his now-girlfriend. He just yells things like "Talk to me, sweetheart, honey" in a sarcastic tone when I walk to my car. He has followed me on occasion. He sent me an email asking to meet and I didn't answer. I never respond to anything. He called my boyfriend to tell him lies about me. His crazy girlfriend screamed at my car when she saw me at the grocery store. She posts nasty things on Facebook and tells people she wants to kick my a**. They are both totally nuts. Can anyone explain this? He has no reason to be hostile; he cheated on me, not the other way around. And she has no reason to hate me, she was the one screwing my boyfriend. Why follow me just to make fools of themselves? Why go to my normal hangouts and then complain that I am bothering them somehow? I really don't get this. They both did wrong, not me. Any theories would be greatly appreciated.
Author soweird Posted November 30, 2012 Author Posted November 30, 2012 By the way, this has been going on for over a year.
britnee13 Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Oh my gosh r u from Carlsbad nm? Sounds like the drama here. I have been in your shoes. My ex cheated on me with some bar rat..then he would get mad at me if I was at the bar here in town.. We have like 3 bars..he would say crazy stuff to me being rude then turn around and try to be with me!! These people are just bored and insecure because they did you wrong!! They are dealing with karma for what they did to you! I would just continue to ignore them both if you have a good thing going with your boyfriend now.. Just reassure your current boyfriend that you care for him and that these jealous people are just trying to tell him things to ruin your relationship! When you ignore them that's the best revenge because it makes them look crazy! If they show up somewhere go to a different place! Just keep ignoring them! If he cheated on you he is not worth your time or thoughts or stress.. I learned this the hard way! I have been through the exact same things!
Trixis4kidz Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 He sent me an email asking to meet and I didn't answer. I never respond to anything. He called my boyfriend to tell him lies about me. Two possible reasons here. #1 - He wants to talk with you and you're not talking to him. This is why he is mad. Rather simple. He probably wants to get back with you for a booty call. Sounds like his character. And he wants to break you up from your current guy, so you'll be back with him. #2 - Some people just hate to see people doing good without them. He messed up with you, so he doesn't want you to have any happiness unless it's with him. His crazy girlfriend screamed at my car when she saw me at the grocery store. She posts nasty things on Facebook and tells people she wants to kick my a**. Well she's immature and jealous, cause she knows that he is still interested in you. Not that complicated to see. 1
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