StandOut Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 I just want to thank everybody for their advice even tho I haven't applied much. Everytime I try to do the no contact my ex contacts me. Don't know why I dont have the will power to just delete and ignore it. She obviously doesn't want to get back with me but for some reason I'm always responding to her messages and inviting her out. Sometimes she does go out with me sometime she doesn't. It's got to a point that I finally had it and the relationship that we have now is not how I want it to be. Haven't spoken to her since earlier yesterday but that's because she never responded to my message. I want finally not contact her ever again cuz it hurting me. I thought about changing my number for she won't be able to me mainly to for I won't respond back. What do you think?
na49 Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Sounds good to me. I'm having a hard time getting myself to block my ex's number even though I know it's best for me.
Author StandOut Posted November 30, 2012 Author Posted November 30, 2012 I know the feeling. She textes me every single night after work. Which messes me up. Cuz we spent 4 years together and if she wanted nothing but just "be friends" for right now. She woundnt text me everyday. I don't text ANY of my friends everyday.
deekay Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 Before you do NC.. Try to tease and flirt with her. She will fall for you instantly, and then when she does, cut contact. This is very effective.
Simon Phoenix Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 I think you need to develop a backbone and not answer back. She's not breaking NC, you are. You need willpower. I guess you can change your number, but this might be a good time to develop some self-control.
Author StandOut Posted December 1, 2012 Author Posted December 1, 2012 So she text me last night about 2:45am "Call me". Didn't even pay mind to it. She could've called me. And she didn't even bother to reply to the last 2 messages I sent her the night before. F**k the booty call sh*t lol. Time for me to take control
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