dsk Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 (edited) So I have met my personal trainer for twice. I am kinda attracted to him, but was sure if he feels the same way. At the first training session he was like keep asking me a lot of personal questions while I was working out, like school, work, favorite food etc. At the second session today, he kept asking me about my weekend plans, what I did last week. I told him that I was just working on a paper last weekend and I don't have plans for the weekend, and I also asked what he is going to do over the weekends, and he said he is going to a house party. And the topic suddenly stopped there. He didn't invite me for the party or anything. But instead he said do you drink? I said yes sometimes. And he stopped the topic again. I mean I was really confused. So is he just doing his job and making conversations with me or if he is kinda interested? Edited November 30, 2012 by dsk
mortensorchid Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Hard to say. Does he chat like that with others or just you? Ask around, surely others have had an interaction with him.
xdahliax Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 I used to do this a lot. He is probably interested in you and asked you these questions because 1) he was trying to find a way to ask you out but chickened out at the last second or 2) wanted to make sure that your weekend plans did not include a boyfriend or date.
Trixis4kidz Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 I'm sorry . . .what?? Are you actually a woman with real lady parts, like breasts, and such??? Then YES, he's interested!
dasein Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 He may be interested, or could be acting so to keep you paying, a pro would not be asking you personal questions other than about your diet or fitness goals. There is so much racket in that racket, I laugh at some of the stuff I see going on between male trainers and their customers. The female ones seem much more professional.
Under The Radar Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 (edited) I think he was probably flirting with you, but regardless, it is part of a personal trainer's job to rapport build with their clients. Thus, any decent trainer would be polite, inquisitive, and engaging with a paying trainee. Edited December 1, 2012 by Training Revelations
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