er1n Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Here's the deal: My bf and I have been together for 4 months (known each other 6), and we have been intimate the whole time. Even though Ive already known that I love him for a while, he hadn't verbalized it himself yet. While having sex last night, he was on top looking at me while uttering the 3 words for the first time - however: he was buzzed. ...but not drunk. Ive been feeling the same for a while, so I said it back. After we were done and laying there, he turned to me and said it again: "i love you, I really do" & then told me "You're the best thing that ever happened to me, I really believe that". & then cuddled me til we passed out. I felt everything that happened was genuine and he meant it all. But of course its harder to tell when you're the one "in" the situation especially if it was in the middle of sex and he had 2 drinks in him. What do you think? Is he in love, or was it an intoxicated heat of a moment?
SmileFace Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Give me his number... let me call him and find out. Wait it depends... what did he drink? What is his body weight? How tall is he? How much does it take him to get drunk? 1
veggirl Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Everyone knows that if you say ILY for the first time after drinking or during sex, you have to clarify it the next day! what did he say the next morning??
Author er1n Posted November 30, 2012 Author Posted November 30, 2012 Today is the next day. And Ive been at work so we haven't spoken yet.
Quiet Storm Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 I definitely believe he genuinely loved you in that moment. Pay attention to his actions at other times. How does he act towards you when he is sober and not having sex? Sometimes men (that aren't drunk) express their love by doing things for you, rather than verbalizing it. It's the love language "acts of service". Things like warming up your car, giving you a massage, etc.
Author er1n Posted November 30, 2012 Author Posted November 30, 2012 He seems to get more "mushy" with me when hes buzzed. But when he is completely sober, he does cute stuff occasionally: -Has my favorite candies waiting for me when I get there sometimes. -We have sex a lot but not every single day/night 24/7 -He cuddles me when were not having sex and just fall asleep instead. -We split tabs/expenses 50-50, but he will occasionally pick it up, or just randomly buy things/snacks for both of us. (Even I will grab the tab sometimes just to return the favor) -He calls me beautiful, strokes my face and hair a lot even when I'm sleeping if hes still awake (not creepy! more gentle, caring) -He has his moments of douchebaggery like any guy can but no ones perfect.
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