puzzled1 Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 So she has been bugging to meet up with me for over 2 weeks and we decided to meet up last night. Back-story- She initiated the "break" and I ended the relationship because I was not going to be put on pause. Anyways, I've been doing AWESOME!!! Been working out and also been talking to another girl that makes me feel completely opposite of what the ex made me feel like. I had some things I had to return to her but we decided to meet up for dinner. . As I got out of the car, she couldn't hold her tears in and started to cry before I even hugged her. She wanted to sit in the car and talk before we went inside. Things got a bit awkward, she kept telling me she missed me, and I've changed and that she cannot believe she did this to me and she would do anything it takes to go back to where we were.. The other side of the grass was not greener (she even said that) and she said that she cannot believe she messed up the greatest thing that ever happened to her..blah blah blah It made me realize how much stronger I have been compared to her. I did not show any emotions and kept it together. I felt so bad because I was in her boat so I kept supporting her but also telling her that she needs to put her chin up! We caught up on all the important things in life (school, health, family). We did not even end up eating because she was too emotional. Anyways, when giving her a hug goodbye, she said "I love you" and I couldn't say it back so she started to cry again. In the beginning she wanted to remain friends and I said no because I still had feelings, now it seems like the tables have turned and I have minimal to no feelings but she does... To all that are in the same boat as me. I know how hard it is, I know it sucks monkey dick, but keep your head up, and surround yourselves with things/people you love. Dont hold s hit back, work out, go out with friends, meet new people and live your life. Fake it till you make it and you wont go back!! Think we can be friends later in life? We were together for 3 years and have had ALOT of firsts.
Gottabestrong Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Wow, I am happy for you that you feel so calm and unemotional about seeing your ex again. Glad you are feeling so much better 6 weeks after the breakup. I think it might be possible to be friends later in life, but that could be a few years in the future.
Author puzzled1 Posted November 30, 2012 Author Posted November 30, 2012 Wow, I am happy for you that you feel so calm and unemotional about seeing your ex again. Glad you are feeling so much better 6 weeks after the breakup. I think it might be possible to be friends later in life, but that could be a few years in the future. Thanks!! I did not think that I would recover this fast EVER!! I have been doing pretty good for the last 2 weeks but ever sense I started to see this new girl(1 week), the ex is almost never on my mind. I just feel like I've conditioned myself to only be optimistic and that's why I feel better! Me and the ex used to go to this one restaurant all the time as it was our favorite place to eat. I wanted to go there again with her but I don't think its appropriate anymore. What do you think?
itsmyfault Posted November 30, 2012 Posted November 30, 2012 Be careful, Don't rush things with this new girl. I'm pretty sure you are feeling so good because you have someone else to pass your emotions for your ex onto. You may not be completely over her. I believe my ex did this, She got with someone else in the same amount of time you did, But cried when I said I wanted nothing to do with her, begged me not to let it be that way. You do not want to get months down the line and go "Oh Sht, What am I doing"
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