lonelyguyhere Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Me and my gf were together for 8 years and then about 7 months ago we got engaged. She broke up with me last month and it is killing me. I messed up and started putting things before her like friends and work, but I always figured we would be together forever and I would have time to make it up to her but now I lost her. We live together and our lease isn't up for another 4 months so we are stuck living together. She told me she doesn't feel the same for me as she used to, but I think that deep down she still does love me. I have recently been injured in work and am stuck home with my thoughts which isn't good at all. She tells me that there isn't another guy she just broke up with me because she thinks that's what it will take for her to be happy and as of right now she doesn't want to be with me but maybe in the future. I am doing my best to let her do her own thing while being a friend and we have been getting along great. She hung out with another guy tonight who she says is just a friend and I believe her but I'm afraid she might end up dating him or something because they have a lot in common, but I don't want that because he is a big druggy. Is there anything I can do to make her realize that I can be the man she fell in love with and not the ******* she fell out of love with? Is there anyway I can make her realize that she is making a mistake and that she won't find another guy like me? This is the girl I planned my future with and I can't lose her. I'm so lost without her and don't know what to do. If anyone can help me I would greatly appreciate it.
Minka333 Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 That is why men/women shouldn't become too complacent in a relationship. Just because they put up with crap in the past doesn't mean they are still willing to put up with it in the future. Some people will forgive and forgive until they become too exhausted and give up. Feelings when constantly taken for granted can die too. By the time you finally decide to change, it's usually too late and they have already emotionally checked out. In your case since you are still living together, maybe you can start by showing her even through small things how much you appreciate/care for her. Let her see the positive changes.* If she really loves you then i guess she'll give you another chance. 1
charlietheginger Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Shes just bored.... She will find another man women always do...
Treasa Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Shes just bored.... She will find another man women always do... Yeah, we tend to do that when we're constantly treated as an option rather than a priority. Even me, and I'm one of the most forgiving people ever. Honestly...you could start treating her wonderfully, but if she's really adamant about not being with you anymore, it's best for you to just try to accept it and move on. 1
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