Kristine Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 (edited) How long do I wait before I give up on the phone call? He e-mailed yesterday via a dating website "Let's exchange phone numbers." So I send mine and I haven't heard from him via message of phone at all since then. It's been a day. He's not a quick responder, he usually waits a day and then responds so he's playing some kind of game I'm not keen to? Basically I'm really interested in this guy, I do have other prospects but this is the one I like. So do I just give up or give a few days? Besides this a guy messaged me I haven't spoken to in a year mainly because I was off the site and we have tentatively set a date/meeting for this weekend. I'm learning slowly how to play the field, but my heart is really set on phone call guy, whose name is Michael. Edited November 29, 2012 by Kristine
dasein Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 48 hours, sometimes 72 depending on how old/busy he is. Wouldn't sweat things just yet. Good luck.
Under The Radar Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 48 hours, sometimes 72 depending on how old/busy he is. Wouldn't sweat things just yet. Good luck. ^^^^^this^^^^^
Author Kristine Posted November 29, 2012 Author Posted November 29, 2012 Thank you. Wow that feels like a long time. But at least I can still hold out hope to hear from him. He's 43, I think, about 5 years older than me.
dasein Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Guys generally want to get 15-20 minutes undistracted for the first call to make a good impression, put some Barry White on in the background, turn on the black light, get into the silk smoking jacket... "Hey pretty lady, I got nothin but you on my mind tonight, and nothin but time for you. Built a shrine in my heart to you... for you... wanna be with you... all night." Hopefully yours will be more down to earth. 1
DC4 Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 48 hours, sometimes 72 depending on how old/busy he is. Wouldn't sweat things just yet. Good luck. This site is a great reminder regarding how impatient I am. I'm sitting here irked someone hasn't answered my text from like 15 minutes ago. Thanks guys!!
Author Kristine Posted November 29, 2012 Author Posted November 29, 2012 So he called!!!!! We have a date for Tuesday because he's out of town this weekend for work. Yippee! I'm excited. Now I have to figure out what to wear how to fix my hair, etc. 1
Chunky Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Make sure you post again and let us know how it goes ok?
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