hdvries86 Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Hi there, My girlfriend broke up with me 8 weeks ago and it's the worst thing ever happened to me. So let me explain my situation. We we're together for 2.5 years and lived 2 years together in my appartment. She was the girl of my dreams and really had a great attitude, brains and looks. The only thing was that she was a bit chubby and I kept making arguments about her weight and eating pattern. It was the most stupid thing i've done because she really is the greatest girl I know and I will regret this the rest of my life. How can I ever forgive myself to be so controlling on the girl I love and she will never return. I hate my life without her and think i'm never gonna find anyone who can compare to her. Greetings, Henk
LostOne1 Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 It's a tough feeling man. My ex left too and it was over a lack of communication. And I as well have to live knowing all I had 2 do was something simple and I didn't.... and I lost her. I think that's why it hurts so much, because we are together for a few years. We do everything together and well... when one leaves it hurts. My guess is the things you said about her physical looks hurt her a lot. And she might feel a bit insecure and now you hurt her and it might feel like you don't want her. If you loved her you wouldn't have cared about the weight unless it was a health risk. I kinda DO see where you are coming from though.. my ex had gained lots of weight too after our relationship. And at one point all she would do is eat..eat... non stop and it wasn't healthy. So yes I have BEEN there where you are and I know how it;s a hard thing to bring up. But the fact is you might need to give her some time. My ex was so mad and confused, I never gave her enough time or I pressured her a lot. And it made things worse, so I would say leave her alone and give her time to think.
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