innanjing Posted August 9, 2004 Posted August 9, 2004 What would make a girl that after one year of living with a guy, a great relationship, but she has decided that it is over for good, what would make her still tell him she loves him, misses him, that he is her baby doll forever, will meet him at the airport when he gets back home to help him get to their apartment, is still living in the apartment but broke up 3 weeks ago, and uses answers like "I dont know" "not sure" etc when he asks her things like will you stay at the apt with me the night i get home, things like that? Is she really sure it is over for sure or what? Thanks and sure could use some views here
male person Posted August 9, 2004 Posted August 9, 2004 It seams to me that she hasn't decided herself. I don't know how she broke up, did she say not in love anymore? I think that there are two things you can do, one is talk. If you want her you can say that this is confusing you, it is not right etc. Another view is to try to read her body language, how is she arround you? If you try to hug and kiss her how does she react? If she doesn't want and tells you to stop then she definatelly doens't want anything, she is just using you to feel better about herself, I think. On the other hand if she does respond to these approaches, ie her body wants it, then I think that she wants you and is expecting you to make the moves... As I say, you can rty talking but don't rule out just holding her and giving her a gentle kiss on the lips and see how she responds. Hope this helped a bit.
overseas2004 Posted August 9, 2004 Posted August 9, 2004 In two words "apparently not". But since it takes no Einstien to see this I would advise you to make her move out. You don't need to be jerked around like this. And boy do people suddenly know how to make up thier minds when the carpet is being pulled from under there feet. I would do it just to enjoy the reaction. Wanna leave ... well you should open the door. And say Ciao Bella as she is leaving. Regards
KaiaMahina Posted August 10, 2004 Posted August 10, 2004 Overseas, you are too ! You say it the way you see it, and it's always This End Up. I hope he takes your advice.
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