OCCDAVE Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Well my first gf one I knew before my ex wife contacted me just now.I won't lie I contacted her during this year guess just wanted to catch up .back then she was still hung up on her ex and was in the process of getting engaged.we talked few times since then even hung out but I didn't wanna be a home wrecker I went Mia .That was about 4 months ago so I'm surprised to see a text I won't lie it made me smile but could it be an ego boost on her part ? 1
bpdr Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Well my first gf one I knew before my ex wife contacted me just now.I won't lie I contacted her during this year guess just wanted to catch up .back then she was still hung up on her ex and was in the process of getting engaged.we talked few times since then even hung out but I didn't wanna be a home wrecker I went Mia .That was about 4 months ago so I'm surprised to see a text I won't lie it made me smile but could it be an ego boost on her part ? First - you would have to roll with it very lightly not getting to into it or hopes built up. Next, you LOOK for those RED FLAGS and this time trust your gut instinct about how sincere she has become over this possible new change of heart. Lastly, tread very carefully and be honest with yourself that you are actually doing the right thing. I'm usually done with someone if it didn't work out the first go around. I prefer to accept the fact it just wasn't meant to be. But, still stranger things have happened! Good luck on any endeavors you so choose here regarding her. Just be freakin' careful OCCDAVE! All the best, BP 1
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 29, 2012 Author Posted November 29, 2012 Well here's a few tidbits from our texting convo Me-so what's up stranger how's it going Her-I'm good I thought of you Me-how so ? Her-I went to see your favorite band last week and you came to mind Me-that's cool glad you had fun Convo then kinda dragged cause we were both busy but I did ask about the guy Me-so when's your wedding ? Her-not happening he found him a new gf and I got me a bf At this point I had a look on my face like I'm ok why did I answer you again.Not really looking to get back with her anyway after she dumped me she burped out a kid(hmm what's with girls dumping me and getting preg lol) I dunno wont bs was nice to hear from here guess closer Saturday gets to being a year help distract me sigh
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 29, 2012 Author Posted November 29, 2012 Lol so I take it I came off to wussy ? Btw I called her today no answer ill leave it in her court not about to start blowing her ph up come off as needy
Jono85 Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Lol so I take it I came off to wussy ? Btw I called her today no answer ill leave it in her court not about to start blowing her ph up come off as needy ur already coming off as needy.. why did u call her?? she said "I GOT MYSELF A NEW BF". did u ignore that? nothing to see here. she replied to u b/c it sounds like u initiated contact. it's not like she initiated contact wanting to talk to u or ask about u. and if she was in the least bit interested in rekindling things i doubt she would have mentioned she got a new bf, and not really give ANY hints as to wanting to meet up. leave it alone man.
AlexDP Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Well my first gf one I knew before my ex wife contacted me just now.I won't lie I contacted her during this year guess just wanted to catch up .back then she was still hung up on her ex and was in the process of getting engaged.we talked few times since then even hung out but I didn't wanna be a home wrecker I went Mia .That was about 4 months ago so I'm surprised to see a text I won't lie it made me smile but could it be an ego boost on her part ? It has got all the makings of a fairytale. Go for it. With that history, how could you not be happy?
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 29, 2012 Author Posted November 29, 2012 ur already coming off as needy.. why did u call her?? she said "I GOT MYSELF A NEW BF". did u ignore that? nothing to see here. she replied to u b/c it sounds like u initiated contact. it's not like she initiated contact wanting to talk to u or ask about u. and if she was in the least bit interested in rekindling things i doubt she would have mentioned she got a new bf, and not really give ANY hints as to wanting to meet up. leave it alone man.I contacted her like 5 months ago since then went nc so she made contact maybe she was fishing who knows but really if you got a bf no need to contact me right
Jono85 Posted December 1, 2012 Posted December 1, 2012 I contacted her like 5 months ago since then went nc so she made contact maybe she was fishing who knows but really if you got a bf no need to contact me right oh ok well from ur text script above looked like u initiated contact. i guess u didn't include her initiating text in that post? but still, if she dumped u, and she just texted u to tell u she thought of u, and then also mentions she got herself a new bf, she might just be looking for some attention yeah. maybe she's not that happy with her bf. either way, i wouldn't put myself out there since you're the dumpee. just MO.
Author OCCDAVE Posted December 1, 2012 Author Posted December 1, 2012 Well since that convo we had no word back from here smh guess she was indeed fishing can't believe I let her hook me sigh .Guess ill go back to nc which I should have maintained sigh
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