rick2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 (edited) I'm wondering if anyone after years of marriage was faced With a problem of having to move to save the marriage. I really don't want to move and I'm faced with a deciosion to move 1,000 miles to new country or to divorce. Anyone moved and regreted or not moved and regreted. Did anyone moved but later on got divorced because of the move? Edited November 28, 2012 by rick2012
pink_sugar Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Well I have a similar situation. We're probably going to have to move out of the apartment we just moved into a few months back due to my husband being unable to budget his savings account...having to be forced back to living with family or renting a room is pretty much the last straw. I'm not sure what's going to happen at this point.
carhill Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 I bought my exW a new house in town so she wouldn't have to commute so far to her business, which was a long-lived complaint of hers in our M. We lived together there briefly before she filed for divorce. I was perfectly willing to reverse commute to my business and rent out my country home. It's just stuff. Anyway, didn't work out in our case. One anecdote. I don't regret trying. I learned a lot about rehab which has benefitted me as an investor post-divorce. She still lives in the same house with her long-term boyfriend. Life goes on.
cocorico Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 I moved in order to marry. I left sunshine, beaches and a happening city for a dark, soggy countryside, in a country with terrible politics. I left wonderful close friends, family, my home, my pets. But I don't regret it. 1
BetheButterfly Posted December 8, 2012 Posted December 8, 2012 I moved in order to marry. I left sunshine, beaches and a happening city for a dark, soggy countryside, in a country with terrible politics. I left wonderful close friends, family, my home, my pets. But I don't regret it. I moved in order to marry too. I left snow and ice and country life with ponds, creeks, rivers, and woods for sunshine, beaches, and a "happening city" lol. I left wonderful close friends, family, my home, and my pet too. But I don't regret it either. I am so excited though because my hubby and I plan on visiting my family for Christmas!!! :bunny: We are also planning on bring my darling pet back with us. I do miss my family, friends, pet (and my parents' and friends' pets) and where I used to live, but I wouldn't trade my husband for ANYTHING!!! I am so grateful for him and love him very much!!! Together, we believe we can make the world a better place, no matter where we are! 1
FitChick Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 I moved in order to marry. I left sunshine, beaches and a happening city for a dark, soggy countryside, in a country with terrible politics. I left wonderful close friends, family, my home, my pets. But I don't regret it. Let me guess: You moved from Oz to England, right?
Woggle Posted December 9, 2012 Posted December 9, 2012 Not at all. My ex sort of made me move to NJ I love it there before the storm hit.
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