Failboy Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 I can literally cum 15 times per day when I'm masturbating alone in my apartment watching porn and I am not exaggerating. I also can stay hard as long as I would like to. When it comes to vaginal intercourse with a condom on, oh boy... there's an 90% chance I never cum, especially in a long term relationship when it is not "new" anymore. If she doesn't put in work (slurp) herself, there's no real chance and then I am the bad guy for not cumming, as if it is my choice not to. Same with staying hard, just to a lesser degree.
mesmerized Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Jerking off /= sex Many dudes can have a hard-on easily when jerking off, but then find they have problems when they have an actual girl in front of their cock. This does not make for fun times or ones you want repeated often. This has only happened to me in my last relationship. And it was never that he wasn't hard before we do it, he'd lose his erection after like 15 minutes of doing it and it would take him and me some effort to get it back. It did make me a bit insecure. But this only went on for a period of few months and then he went back to normal. Still not sure what was going on! With any other guy, there was never an issue of them getting hard. A couple of them would walk into my place already having a hard on...well, I guess it helped that I opened the door for them in my bra and panties
maybealone Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Well let's be fair, some women don't know how to get a cock hard and just want you to walk around maintaining it...especially in this type of scenario; ::wrestling around fully clothed, getting hot and bothered...erection in full patriotic flag over Iwo Jima force, could stand against 100 mph Hurricane Sandy winds without wavering, slamming against the back door of your jean zipper...like let me the f out!:: Her: "Wait a minute, I gotta go pee real quick" You: "Ok go ahead...but hurry back" ::slap on the ass as she leaves:: doodoodoo doo doo da doo doo doo...(definitely doing more than a pee...probably a tampon or a dookie, oh well, no anal tonight) several minutes later... ::she hops casually into bed again...her buttocks chilled by the porcelain throne...we restart of the previous moment like if you just paused a movie then hit play:: several minutes later... Her: "Ugh...wait a minute my hairs bothering me I need to put it up"... ::she gets up...oh it's not on the dresser...where can it be? well let's go find it! no sense of urgency here after all!:: doododoo dadoo doo doo da doo several minutes later... Her: "Ok...where were we?" Him: "I think we were....here" Her: "Oooo" ::once again, restart the previous session, kissing, undressing, passion ensues...her cooled body now feels like she's been hanging out of a window on a freeway...nonetheless you signal to the private down below, take her down!...aye aye captain!:: She wraps her legs around you...you've just eased back into the moment and then.. Her: " Ahhh ahh " You: "what, what!...what's wrong this time!" Her: "My leg, ow, my leg ow, it's cramping....ow ow owie" Your penis: "For crying out freaking loud woman, you couldn't have pissed, dookie, removed the tampon, pulled your hair back, did some stretches BEFORE WE GOT IN THE GOD DAMN BED!" an awkward several minutes later... Her: "Ugh...ughh...phew, Ok...ok it's gone...I'm sorry, let's keep going..." You: ::sigh:: "Alright" She pulls you on top only to feel your flaccid lump of man meat resting upon her vagina pillow like a dead beached whale(you know that piece of fat cushion above her vagina) who minutes before was able to pierce steel... Her: "What...what's wrong, how come you're not hard? Do you not want to have sex with me?...do I look fat or not turn you on?" You: ::like a desperate man, a mans who's given up and without a word you proceed towards the nearest window and jump out of it...only to land naked into the rose bushes....if only you were four stories higher:: Are there seriously women like that? I think my discomfort level would have to be more along the lines of a compound fracture to distract me from a hard penis. Or even a soft, but willing, one. Back to the OP, I think your sex drive is normal and you should not have a problem finding a compatible man. The big thing to remember is that sex rarely gets more frequent. So if you find a man that drops down to once every week or so, don't assume that if you live closer/move in/get married things will improve.
Author PinkSapphire Posted November 29, 2012 Author Posted November 29, 2012 I liked that little story, though I feel for guys who actually deal with that. I would NEVER stop in the middle, for anything! Especially if he was hard and we were getting heavy. Also, I am pretty good at keeping or re-working an erection; he had issues staying hard, but I could get it right back (much to his chagrin). Finally, he wouldn't let me touch him because he wanted an excuse to be over. Frustrating. I know I don't want it to be my *only* requirement. Trust me, I probably have more than enough demands for the right guy, but now I have realized that it actually has to be on there (seriously never thought I'd find a man who didn't want to have sex. I guess naivete lets one believe most men like it and it slips the mind) but it is quite important. My few close guy friends that I have confessed this to are completely shocked. In fact, they have all offered to be FWB until I find someone new. Since ONS are not my thing (sex with a stranger is NOT appealing in the least), I am actually considering it. Sex with no strings with someone you KNOW cares a lot about you....yeah, that sounds about right You guys are great; keep it coming.
amaysngrace Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Guys with high sex drives want more sex the more they get it. It's like it's never enough with them. Any guy can be this guy. Just keep having lots of sex with him. 1
mesmerized Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Guys with high sex drives want more sex the more they get it. It's like it's never enough with them. Any guy can be this guy. Just keep having lots of sex with him. Wake up, wake up!
ThaWholigan Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Wake up, wake up! women are insatiable. So am I
mesmerized Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 women are insatiable. So am I I'm sure you are. But not all guys have the same sex drive.
somedude81 Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Wake up, wake up! Odds are, he wouldn't even need to wake up Though you'd have to do all the work.
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