Marie0708 Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Hi, just a quick question: Ladies, if you were confessing to a guy that you liked him and wanted a relationship, would you do it over the phone or in person? What if he lives pretty far away...is it better to call him over Skype or something, or should it be done face to face? Thanks!!
Treasa Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 It would depend on how long you've known him, been dating him, and what kind of relationship you have.
Cutiepie1976 Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Face to face! It's easier to weave it flirtatiously into the conversation, and for both of you to get distracted briefly with other things in your environment during the awkward moment that follows if the person doesn't share your interest. On the phone, it's just an awkward dead silence while the person collects his thoughts to come up with a palatable response. You also get to see the person's reaction. All the visual cues are lost on a call. Since people have a hard time saying not interested sometimes, seeing their reaction is important. It also works way better if the answer is yes.
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