SunshineGirl1 Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Last visit to my boyfriends house I noticed a picture of his last girlfriend (who dumped him for another man) sitting on his desktop. I didn't look super close but I didn't see my picture anywhere. He also purchased a bedroom set she left at their place that she used to use. I don't like this. I don't understand why he can't let go of her. He brings her up in conversation each time we are together. I am trying to be nice about it but it really grates on my nerves.
Ninjainpajamas Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 You've got the body but she's got the heart. 3
Lonely Ronin Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Walk away, he is not ready to date again! 1
Imajerk17 Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 You've got the body but she's got the heart. This HAS to be the shortest post you've ever written on here, NinjaInPajamas. Anyway SunshineGirl, I agree with NIP on this. 2
NoMoreJerks Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Last visit to my boyfriends house I noticed a picture of his last girlfriend (who dumped him for another man) sitting on his desktop. I didn't look super close but I didn't see my picture anywhere. He also purchased a bedroom set she left at their place that she used to use. I don't like this. I don't understand why he can't let go of her. He brings her up in conversation each time we are together. I am trying to be nice about it but it really grates on my nerves. Red flag, imo. How long ago did they break up? I think you might be a rebound... I would bring it up with him, in a friendly and "i'm curious" sort of way -- you do want to understand why he's doing it. Don't nag. If he gets all defensive, etc., then I think you have your answer -- in that case, I'd take a bit of distance from him and would do my best to undo the emotional attachment I have to him.
Negative Nancy Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 You've got the body but she's got the heart. Shortest yet most accurate and most eloquent posting ever!
Treasa Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Yep, agree with the others. I can't even get interested in a guy who's interested in someone else. How long have you been with him?
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