Chico333 Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Broke up with my now ex after 3 years of consistent dating and 1.5 yrs of living together. I am 25. He is 26. I did it due to his anger issues and temper. Anyways...I've had enough and broke it off. I still have to move out my things, which is a pain. He is broken. He is so sad, sorry and all that sob sorry stuff. He calls me and texts me. It is also hard on me. I have so many feelings randomly coming out. One minute I feel relieved and the next I feel sad. Then I feel mad. The worst is when I feel sad which is constant. I respond to his texts basically holding my ground but not being cruel. I feel bad abandoning him and ignoring him when he is hurting. How do I cope? How do I hold my own during this hard time? I am going with my gut this time instead of my heart. I am being pulled in two different directions, but I know what I have to do and be strong. It is so hard and heartbreaking. I need to focus on school as finals and things are coming up. This is the worst time for this to happen.
Treasa Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 You did the right thing. You teach other people how to treat you, and you're teaching him that you won't put up with abusive behavior. Trust me, I SO KNOW where you are coming from. I recently ended it with my ex for similar reasons, and it's hard sometimes not to feel bad, but then he ends up being a prick again, and I remember why I broke things off. Nothing wrong with only wanting what's good for you. Try to find honest pleasure in your studies if you can. That will help you focus on them. 1
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