Chico333 Posted November 28, 2012 Posted November 28, 2012 Broke up with my now ex after 3 years of consistent dating and 1.5 yrs of living together. I am 25. He is 26. Everything about him and the relationship was great EXCEPT his temper. That has been the one underlying issue behind a lot of the arguments as well as miscommunication because he gets angry easily. I am by no means perfect and have my share of mess-ups as well but, the way he has acted during numerous arguments throughout this relationship is completely unnecessary, immature and just unacceptable. Anyways...I've had enough and broke it off. I still have to move out my things, which is a pain. He is broken. He is so sad, sorry and all that sob sorry stuff. He calls me and texts me. It has only been a few days so obviously the beginning is always the hardest. It is also hard on me. I have so many feelings randomly coming out. One minute I feel relieved and the next I feel sad. Then I feel mad. The worst is when I feel sad which is constant. I respond to his texts basically holding my ground but not being cruel. I feel bad abandoning him and ignoring him when he is hurting. How do I cope? How do I hold my own during this hard time? I am going with my gut this time instead of my heart. I am being pulled in two different directions, but I know what I have to do and be strong. It is so hard and heartbreaking. I need to focus on school as finals and things are coming up. This is the worst time for this to happen.
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