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Constant Frustration and Rejection


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So this seems to happen to me all the time more recently over the last 3-6 months I talk to a girl get her number we chat over the phone/text to break that barrier. Then can never get the date or can never even grab a coffee with them even when the girl says she is free. Also girls tend to tell me I am a nice guy a lot. Don't know I can never usually be the "dick" but what are some ways to get over this hump. Should i start being cocky and funny more? More of a douchebag? Not sure.... ( Not to be cocky but I am a good looking guy 6 foot 1 tan athletic etc.)

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May need to divulge where exactly you are meeting these girls from.

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So this seems to happen to me all the time more recently over the last 3-6 months I talk to a girl get her number we chat over the phone/text to break that barrier. Then can never get the date or can never even grab a coffee with them even when the girl says she is free. Also girls tend to tell me I am a nice guy a lot. Don't know I can never usually be the "dick" but what are some ways to get over this hump. Should i start being cocky and funny more? More of a douchebag? Not sure.... ( Not to be cocky but I am a good looking guy 6 foot 1 tan athletic etc.)

Thanks For reading

 

^ meeting girls from the coffee shop, through friends hanging out, last girl that rejected me works at a tanning salon.

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There is no explanation that can really be given to you. Exactly how many girls are we talking about? Rejection happens for a number of reasons. It is very possible these girls exchanged numbers not to be rude but in the end weren't looking for a relationship. Don't get discouraged, and maybe even give OLD a try. The (only) real good thing about online dating is you know the girls are open to a relationship.

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There is no explanation that can really be given to you. Exactly how many girls are we talking about? Rejection happens for a number of reasons. It is very possible these girls exchanged numbers not to be rude but in the end weren't looking for a relationship. Don't get discouraged, and maybe even give OLD a try. The (only) real good thing about online dating is you know the girls are open to a relationship.

 

True. What sites or services would you recommend?

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